Gay Men with a Woman

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by pablovian, Oct 19, 2010.

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The Thought of Having Sex with a Woman

  1. Just doesn't really do anything for you

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  2. Actually grosses you out

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  1. pablovian

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    Just a question for the Mostly Gay Men on the forum.

    Does the thought of having sex with a woman actual gross you out or does it really just do nothing for you. I definitely have troubles "performing" when I'm with a woman but trying to doesn't really gross me out (except for the thought of eating her out; but I don't really like the thought of jizz either)
     
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    I don't see an option for "It's actually pretty fun!"
    Hmm. Maybe I'm just not gay enough to vote.
     
  3. D_Ebensneezer_Spooge

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    theres many "gay" men who would go straight for a night given the right girl and circumstances (liquor) lol
     
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    Doesn't gross me out at all. I've had very good sex with women. Granted, it was during college and my hormones were pumping hard.

    I freaked one of my straight girl friends out the other day when she was talking about breast pumps and shit like that and I told her how that really grossed me out. She just didn't get it, so I told her that I would rather eat pussy than see a lactating woman. that got the point across.

    And when you throw in straight porn or actually watching a man and woman have sex, that totally turns me on. Mostly because of the man involved, but still.

    so, I am not grossed out at all. In fact, I often give props to the pussy... if I had one, I would just seduce every man out there. It's a powerful thing.
     
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    I consider myself gay now. However, in my earlier years I dated and had sex with one woman. The thought does not gross me out at all; it just bores me. Having to put up with their constant yammering, game playing and all is just boring. The man I am with now knows what buttons to push during sex; my one woman never knew that. and yes, maybe it is unfair to judge all based on the one woman experiences. However, men are a lot more fun to be the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day! I have actually had a renewed interest in eating out a woman full of my jizz. But I don't want to have to put up with the rest of a relationship or dating just for that!!! How about you?
     
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    one young lad (early 30s) I had a quick fling with a few years ago was gay and had a child (he was tall and thin with uncut dick to match- longest 4 skin I have ever encountered). Apparently he was at night club one night- in a smallish town no blokes were interested (that he could find) took a woman home instead and discovered to his shock sometime later he had impregnated her (how come he didnt have condoms? must have only planned j/o or oral).

    when I knew him his kid was a few years old- wasnt interested in rearing her but visited her fairly regularly and was proud of her.
     
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    No matter how gay the small number of gay men I have known well have been, they always had something for a woman's breasts.
     
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    Very interesting responses. Anybody else want to chime in?
     
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    I know a gay man who is disgusted by women's breasts. He calls them "funbags," too, which I hate, but he has cruder terms for them. He's actually had sex with a woman once, but I've been told never to bring it up because it's such a sensitive subject for him. He's very reactive towards any suggestion that he might not be gay, so I suspect that if I even ask him about whether he's ever had sex with a woman that it would unleash a rant about how he doesn't need converting or something like that, which I would never suggest and I don't believe that he does, but that's just the way that he is. He has issues and he's very non-discriminatory about who he'll lash out at over them.

    He would definitely choose the "grossed out" answer.

    He's also one of those gay men who says that all bisexual men are actually gay and in denial. :rolleyes:
     
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    Much to my surprise, neither am I. :redface:

    In other words, he's an asshole.
     
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    Don't worry, Bbucko! I'd still vote for your face on the $3.00 bill if they printed one (if that would help you :biggrin: )
     
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    Ha! Only about being gay. He's really a good guy, he just tends to expect straight people to be bigoted and he doesn't have a good sense of judgment regarding that, so he's indiscriminately defensive. As long as I, as a straight woman, avoids the entire subject of "being gay," then he's a complete sweetheart and a charmer. He's just ridiculously sensitive about being gay. I suspect that he's like that from many bad experiences growing up because he's an extremely tiny effeminate gay man, the person that most people think of when they use the word "flaming." TheBF says that he makes me look big and butch. :tongue:
     
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    Well, I really am that queer: one could do much worse :wink:

    Hmmmmmmmm...sounds like someone I'd twist like a pretzel and cause to burst into uncontrollable tears as he shoots a load over his head; it wouldn't be the first time :cool:
     
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    The choices in your survey and in your OP are too narrow.

    And you're 80% straight?
     
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    Probably! He might really like it, too.

    That's exactly what I thought.
     
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    The funny thing is, I actually think straight porn is quite hot. But the thought of me actually having sex with a woman? Definitely gross! :tongue:
     
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    lol same for me, it really grosses me out to think of myself doing it, but straight porn can be really hot, I just have to skip the really gross vagina close ups. :laughing:

     
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    doesn't gross me out at all. i just have no interest, it does nothing for me. Obviously I can tell when a woman is hot/sexy... I may even think, "hmm, I would she's like in bed? is she a good fuck?" but it does nothing for me - those thoughts do not excite me at all. however, thinking of a guy in the same fashion would spark my interest!!
     
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    Doesn't really affect my thoughts one way or the other. I highly doubt my dick would even get hard if the opportunity presented itself.

    Someone else mentioned that every gay man he/she knew had an obsession with women's breasts. I've noticed this, too. However, I am not one of those.
    My best friend's now ex-wife got breast implants and decided she needed my opinion on them. She pulled her shirt up and bra down and said "what do you think? Do you like them?" my response was a very dryly delivered "no". She was shocked and demanded to know why. I said "if I have no interest in what you have between your legs, what makes you think I have any interested in what is on your chest?"

    I think she's still puzzled by that statement, 8 years later. :rolleyes:
     
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    I've never had sex with a girl but I'm open to trying, it doesn't gross me out. However, I'm afraid of not being able to perform lol, I just like men better.

    Not gross.
     
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