Sometimes I feel sorry for straight guys. As a gay male there is a certain degree of freedom that is afforded you living on the fringe of society.
Straight men have a certain life plan that is expected of them and it involves a wife, kid, family vacations...etc. Any deviation from that comes consequences like divorce, alimony, child support....etc. There seems to be an awful lot of expectations placed on straight guys in our society and not much support nor camarderie nor freedom to just be who you are. People call it midlife crisis but I see desperation in the eyes of weekend Harley riders and all boy trips to Thailand to snag hookers.
Sometimes I feel sorry for straight guys. As a gay male there is a certain degree of freedom that is afforded you living on the fringe of society.
Straight men have a certain life plan that is expected of them and it involves a wife, kid, family vacations...etc. Any deviation from that comes consequences like divorce, alimony, child support....etc. There seems to be an awful lot of expectations placed on straight guys in our society and not much support nor camarderie nor freedom to just be who you are. People call it midlife crisis but I see desperation in the eyes of weekend Harley riders and all boy trips to Thailand to snag hookers.
.....You've felt that your orientations was forced on you? How? (Honestly curious, not trying to be an ass...)
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Wow this seems very sad to me. Maybe it's true that straight guys have limited expectations but they can choose to do something else. I know guys who are artistic and they've really carved out their own niche. Most of them aren't married with kids though but they do have girlfriends.
Not all guys are as broad-minded as you Micstar456. But it would be great if they were...
I'd like to unravel 2 mysteries about straight guys:
Straight Dude Mystery #1: Why do so many (not all, of course) straight guys assume that because you are gay and they are males, you are automatically attracted to them? I never quite understood that. I am sexually attracted to less than 5% of sexually-active men, i.e. there is no way I could ever have sex with over 95% of men, straight or gay, yup, even drunk and on Viagra.
Are most straight guys sexually attracted to almost all females in their age group?
Straight Dude Mystery #2: From my dad to Tony Soprano, I gather that, in prison, it is socially graceful (so to speak) for a man to sodomize another and still be called "straight". Hmmm! Doesn't sodomy require an erection and, say, a quarter teaspoon of sexual attraction? I know I could French-kiss some girls, in prison or not, but if I were locked up with chicks only, even for 5 years, I still wouldn't be able to stay hard enough through an intercourse, let alone anal intercourse.
If I could, I would consider myself bi-sexual, not gay.
Any clue?