It had been brought up in another thread that there can be some issues as to finding ways to meet people for relationship beyond fucking. Craigslist wasn't working out for that individual. Of course there aare other sites out there that would probably yield better results, such as match.com, chemistry.com, okcupid.com, compatiblepartners.com, etc. Of course, there are even mre specific sites that may be helpful to our gay military members. A ten second search brought up the following: gaymillitarydating.com, milltarycupid.com, and gaymilliatrysingles.com and a host others. Note that like any dating sites you will have to weed out those people who only want one night stands and such, but you would be more likely to meet individuals who share similar backgrounds, goals and ideals, and body types (as had been brought up in the other thread,though it's importance to others may vary) Of course there our other sights out there for those looking for just sex, but as i am concentrating on the relationship aspect, I don't feel the need to list them. Hopefully this helps some people.