I've been reading some posts in this group and I've noticed that y'all cover alot of topics. I've had a few questions that may not have been raised before. I'm asking specifically to gay and bi guys, but anybody's comments would be welcome. I had a few questions.... One... is a question about the whole top and bottom thing. I feel most comfortable being bottom. Now I'm only average size, but I have the feeling that when I'm with guys who are smaller, that they want me to top, just because I happen to be the more endowed one. I'm wondering if any of you feel like size effects the whole top and bottom preference? And especially for those of you who are hung, if there are any of you that just wanna bottom, but feel pushed by the guys you're with to top just because of your size? Two... I personally feel that size is bigger issue among gay relations then it is among straight. Gay culture seems more obsessed with size and the fantasy of hung guys. My question is, can a extremely well hung man get almost any man he wants? Not being hung myself, I'm curious. Three.. I wonder if size can effect attitude towards other men. I've been with a few guys that were somewhat,(but not what I would call especially) well endowed, perhaps just a bit above average, who have treated myself or other guys, kind of like we were disposable. You see the same kind of attitude sometimes with really hot girls or buff guys. Has anybody else noticed this kind of thing?