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As a straight guy ok this site, it comes without any shortage of the offer of blowjobs from gay, bi, and even straight guys.

I have asked many of these people that offer, but I want to hear from the community:

Why is sucking straight cock, such a big goal of yours.

Do you ever convince straight guys to let you suck them? If so what do you say to get them to agree?
 

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For some guys I guess it's a fetish. For some it's a challenge/game to get something more difficult to attain, an ego boost.

Personally, I have blown so many self identifying straight guys that I don't really differentiate.

Generally speaking, guys who have no attraction to men usually have a male cocksucker because oral sex with a man in their mind is just sex. No emotional attachment, "no dinner and a movie" first, no payment, often no expected reciprocation etc. To married straight guys, this blow and go situation in their mind isn't cheating because it's just a physical thing not an emotional cheating.

Pretty much every bi guy I know says men are better at BJs on average than women. Also many women don't like doing it, so there is no guarantees of getting one in a hookup.
 

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For some guys I guess it's a fetish. For some it's a challenge/game to get something more difficult to attain, an ego boost.

Personally, I have blown so many self identifying straight guys that I don't really differentiate.

Generally speaking, guys who have no attraction to men usually have a male cocksucker because oral sex with a man in their mind is just sex. No emotional attachment, "no dinner and a movie" first, no payment, often no expected reciprocation etc. To married straight guys, this blow and go situation in their mind isn't cheating because it's just a physical thing not an emotional cheating.

Pretty much every bi guy I know says men are better at BJs on average than women. Also many women don't like doing it, so there is no guarantees of getting one in a hookup.

I understand that in most cases if a straight married guy does let a dude suck his dick it can be a blow a go. But if this blowjob is wonderful and he actually likes it and comes back for more, at what point does this turn to a normal thing, possibly ruining the marriage?

Then they are sneaking around, avoiding having the wife know, and if she does then what?

Now I understand it from the married guys perspective where some wife’s either rarely suck their cock, or not at all, and they find a guy that wants to suck their cock on the down low. My wife rarely sucks my cock and I wish she would way more often. But at the same time, how is that not cheating? I mean what if it was flipped and the person who sucks their cock as a blow and go is a female?

I can see situations like this, which really is intended to just get a cock sucked, demur to the lack of, ruining marriages and even conversion into other things with guys. Because think about it, if the wife divorces the dude then he has a steady cock sucker that he may be now open to do more with, since he is already whipping out his cock for the dudes mouth and cumming all ok that mouth to see them swallow.

Maybe I am going way off base here, but I have to imagine that this can’t be to farfetched?

thoughts?
 

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I understand that in most cases if a straight married guy does let a dude suck his dick it can be a blow a go. But if this blowjob is wonderful and he actually likes it and comes back for more, at what point does this turn to a normal thing, possibly ruining the marriage?

Then they are sneaking around, avoiding having the wife know, and if she does then what?

Now I understand it from the married guys perspective where some wife’s either rarely suck their cock, or not at all, and they find a guy that wants to suck their cock on the down low. My wife rarely sucks my cock and I wish she would way more often. But at the same time, how is that not cheating? I mean what if it was flipped and the person who sucks their cock as a blow and go is a female?

I can see situations like this, which really is intended to just get a cock sucked, demur to the lack of, ruining marriages and even conversion into other things with guys. Because think about it, if the wife divorces the dude then he has a steady cock sucker that he may be now open to do more with, since he is already whipping out his cock for the dudes mouth and cumming all ok that mouth to see them swallow.

Maybe I am going way off base here, but I have to imagine that this can’t be to farfetched?

thoughts?

I think it goes something like this: You have a particular need, you go without having this need being met because of all the other things you get for being in a relationship. But as time goes by, not having this need met makes the feeling grow stronger and creates resentment towards your partner. You still love this person and want to be with this person but you are being completely starved of something you really need.

This resentment grows until it gets to the point that you feel the infidelity is justified for the suffering you've endured.

I don't think most people go into a relationship thinking they are going to cheat but I think what happens is the first time they do it, they feel really bad. After some time they get over this guilt then do it again. Eventually it doesn't have any negative emotion attached to it.

So why do some guys find another guy instead of another woman? I think it's because all they want is that need met and nothing else. Getting a blowjob from a man is a lesser crime than finding another woman to have sex with and having feelings for her. Also gay guys are mostly better at sucking cock and often will do it for no reciprocation, compensation or repercussion.
 

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I think it goes something like this: You have a particular need, you go without having this need being met because of all the other things you get for being in a relationship. But as time goes by, not having this need met makes the feeling grow stronger and creates resentment towards your partner. You still love this person and want to be with this person but you are being completely starved of something you really need.

This resentment grows until it gets to the point that you feel the infidelity is justified for the suffering you've endured.

I don't think most people go into a relationship thinking they are going to cheat but I think what happens is the first time they do it, they feel really bad. After some time they get over this guilt then do it again. Eventually it doesn't have any negative emotion attached to it.

So why do some guys find another guy instead of another woman? I think it's because all they want is that need met and nothing else. Getting a blowjob from a man is a lesser crime than finding another woman to have sex with and having feelings for her. Also gay guys are mostly better at sucking cock and often will do it for no reciprocation, compensation or repercussion.

I see your point, one of the things that also crosses my mind is the phrase, nothing is ever free. So even though you may in fact be getting a blowjob and can just leave, it’s not always that simple. You have reached the point where you feel comfortable with this other person to take your dick out and let them suck your cock, that has to open up some trust and somewhat of a relationship to unleash the beast if you will.

So when this point is reached, now what you are comfortable with sexually has already expanded and it may become easier for the receiving person to be persuaded to get closer to the cock sucker and in some cases be open to other things.

im not saying that this can happen with each blow and go, but if the cock sucker does such a good job and the dude keeps going back, I can see the opportunity being brought up to convert or expand the now open mind of the person being sucked.

It’s much like then situation of a dude that cheats on his wife once, in most cases it never happens just once and either becomes a regular thing, and can ruin the original relationship.

Then I also wonder if the cocksucker ever blackmails the dude to either continue these sessions, or try other things like sex or even getting him to suck the original sucker.

I’m not saying this happens all the time, but one does have to wonder if some cock suckers have a hidden motive for offering from what is said such an amazing blowjob for free, no strings attached, and whenever they want it.

Thiughts?
 

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I see your point, one of the things that also crosses my mind is the phrase, nothing is ever free. So even though you may in fact be getting a blowjob and can just leave, it’s not always that simple. You have reached the point where you feel comfortable with this other person to take your dick out and let them suck your cock, that has to open up some trust and somewhat of a relationship to unleash the beast if you will.

So when this point is reached, now what you are comfortable with sexually has already expanded and it may become easier for the receiving person to be persuaded to get closer to the cock sucker and in some cases be open to other things.

im not saying that this can happen with each blow and go, but if the cock sucker does such a good job and the dude keeps going back, I can see the opportunity being brought up to convert or expand the now open mind of the person being sucked.

It’s much like then situation of a dude that cheats on his wife once, in most cases it never happens just once and either becomes a regular thing, and can ruin the original relationship.

Then I also wonder if the cocksucker ever blackmails the dude to either continue these sessions, or try other things like sex or even getting him to suck the original sucker.

I’m not saying this happens all the time, but one does have to wonder if some cock suckers have a hidden motive for offering from what is said such an amazing blowjob for free, no strings attached, and whenever they want it.

Thiughts?

It's also possible that the person could die of a heart attack while getting blown by another man. Likely? No...

I'm not saying having a gay cocksucker is without risk but all actions have consequences including doing nothing at all.

I am also not saying I would do what these guys do if I was in those circumstances. I just know what they say and how they got there.

At the end of the day, you have to live with your decisions in life. Most people tend to say they regret the things they didn't do in life more often than the things they did do.
 
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It's also possible that the person could die of a heart attack while getting blown by another man. Likely? No...

I'm not saying having a gay cocksucker is without risk but all actions have consequences including doing nothing at all.

I am also not saying I would do what these guys do if I was in those circumstances. I just know what they say and how they got there.

At the end of the day, you have to live with your decisions in life. Most people tend to say they regret the things they didn't do in life more often than the things they did do.

How do you start off a conversation with a straight guy to duck his cock?

Does it take much convincing?

In your experience, those that you suck who are married regularly, does that cause friction with their marriage? Or does it provide a balance to their needs and their married life?

Does it ever get more involved then just sucking their cock?
 
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How do you start off a conversation with a straight guy to duck his cock?

Does it take much convincing?

In your experience, those that you suck who are married regularly, does that cause friction with their marriage? Or does it provide a balance to their needs and their married life?

Does it ever get more involved then just sucking their cock?

I'm not one to try to convince anyone to do something like that. There are so many men that want sex to waste time like that. I really think that person needs to come to that conclusion first.

In the gay community, there are also a lot of closeted gay men and men still trying to come to terms with their orientation etc. So a degree of understanding is inherent in hook ups.

In terms of the effect on people's relationships, that's something you should pose to guys in that situation or women who have been on the receiving end of it.
 

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Im only basing this on my experience. I’m not saying that all gay men have a goal of straight cock.

Alright. But going into a forum for Gay men, to "hear from the community" "why sucking straight cock" is such a big goal of ours indicates a generalization. It would have been really simple to phrase the question in a way that made it clear that you're not generalizing. E.g. "Why do some Gay men have a goal of blowing Straight men?" Or "For those of you who aim for sucking off Straight guys, what is your reason for this?" So at the least I think you were being a bit careless.

I think the reality is that most of us are indifferent, or prefer fellow homo/bi men (in some cases just homo). Personally, I am in that last category. A guy identifying as Straight is a total turnoff for me (I don't mean I find such repulsive, just that it makes him automatically not a sexual interest for me). It continually boggles my mind that any homo/bi guy would feel differently.
 
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Some may be excited by pursuing straight guys for the the thrill of the chase but for me it’s my attraction for the individual. I desire to see the cute guy naked despite his sexual orientation.

I’ve been in situations where I’ve found the guy to be attractive to me and it can be easy to turn them on (seduce) with sexual conversations.
In the past few years I’ve given oral sex to around 6 straight guys, they’ve either been Couchsurfing guests (we’ve watched porn together) or workmen in my home who I’ve flirted with. They’ve stated they’ve never been with a guy before.

Don’t judge me negatively but I’ve previously told guys that I’m bisexual (a lie) to enable conversations to become sexual, I’ve stated I’ve had group sex with male friends and a female; this sometimes interests the straight guy to talk about the experience. Embarrassingly after I sucked off a cute young straight guy he wrote to me on WhatsApp one evening and asked if he and his GF could visit me for group sex

Straight guys often mention how difficult females can be with sex and may take a couple of dates before they get them in to bed.

Only once did the straight guy touch my dick as they can be nervous and expect to be pleasured by the gay guy with the experience. This isn’t disappointing to me as I’m fully aware that to this is for sheer sexual pleasure and some have asked if I have any female porn available to watch while they’re being sucked.
 
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Understand that I am not trying to make assumptions that all gay or bi guys seek straight cock.

On the other hand in my experience, I have seen multiple gay or bi guys (even straight guys) offer to suck my cock for various reasons.

Sometimes in the conversations, you can tell that they really crave straight cock, which is to be expected from gay or bi guys.

The point of this thread was not to say that straight cock is a gay mans wet dream. This thread is not intended for those who do not seek straight cock and do not feel this way, but rather for those who do.

I am amply asking for the gay or bi guys( and for some reason straight guys) that do put extra desire in straight cock to share their thoughts.

It’s clear that this thread has triggers some people and that some people would rather complain than answer the question.

This thread is aimed for a specific groups of gay and bi guys, please keep that in consideration. I am not here to argue with people.

If you feel so strongly, pm me and we can discuss it.
 

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Sometimes in the conversations, you can tell that they really crave straight cock, which is to be expected from gay or bi guys.

This sounds really idiotic.

"Craving straight cock" is not to be expected from homosexual or bisexual men.

For one thing, there is nothing about a cock being attached to a Straight guy that makes it special or inherently different. So there's no reason to crave it in particular.

For another, it actually makes no practical sense for homo/bi men to have a particular interest in Straight men, rather than men who are at peace with being with other men. Homo/bi men favoring other homo/bi men enables them to have healthy, mutual romantic relationships. The favoring of Straight men is really just deviant and pathological, and it certainly does not serve the dignification of being a queer man.

Lastly, characterizing male-male sexuality as revolving around the craving of cock in general is misguided. There is nothing about men being attracted to other men that necessarily entails a fixation on penis. Men being attracted to men means just that. We have some (or predominating, in the case of homosexuality) attraction to some members of the same sex for various reasons. Could be one really enjoys the general male vocal timbre. Could be one appreciates the overall developed male skeletal or muscular structure. Could be that the sorts of personalities men tend to develop as a consequence of male socialization one finds more sexually appealing. A lot of men who are attracted to other men have a particular thing for penis, but this is far from a universal.

I am amply asking for the gay or bi guys( and for some reason straight guys) that do put extra desire in straight cock to share their thoughts.

Then you ought to have posted this in a different forum. This forum is Ask a Gay Man. Only Gay men are allowed to respond to threads in this forum.

It’s clear that this thread has triggers some people and that some people would rather complain than answer the question.

If you don't want your posts to be criticized, try not to post such poorly-worded, insensitive, ignorant rubbish.

Dismiss the criticism as people getting "triggered" and "complaining" and your concessions are not going to garner any good will.
 

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This sounds really idiotic.

"Craving straight cock" is not to be expected from homosexual or bisexual men.

For one thing, there is nothing about a cock being attached to a Straight guy that makes it special or inherently different. So there's no reason to crave it in particular.

For another, it actually makes no practical sense for homo/bi men to have a particular interest in Straight men, rather than men who are at peace with being with other men. Homo/bi men favoring other homo/bi men enables them to have healthy, mutual romantic relationships. The favoring of Straight men is really just deviant and pathological, and it certainly does not serve the dignification of being a queer man.

Lastly, characterizing male-male sexuality as revolving around the craving of cock in general is misguided. There is nothing about men being attracted to other men that necessarily entails a fixation on penis. Men being attracted to men means just that. We have some (or predominating, in the case of homosexuality) attraction to some members of the same sex for various reasons. Could be one really enjoys the general male vocal timbre. Could be one appreciates the overall developed male skeletal or muscular structure. Could be that the sorts of personalities men tend to develop as a consequence of male socialization one finds more sexually appealing. A lot of men who are attracted to other men have a particular thing for penis, but this is far from a universal.



Then you ought to have posted this in a different forum. This forum is Ask a Gay Man. Only Gay men are allowed to respond to threads in this forum.



If you don't want your posts to be criticized, try not to post such poorly-worded, insensitive, ignorant rubbish.

Dismiss the criticism as people getting "triggered" and "complaining" and your concessions are not going to garner any good will.


Dude, of all the the people that I interact on this forum, you really have such an attitude.

I have said multiple times that in my experience, a lot of gay or bisexual guys on this forum really crave straight cock. I AM NOT SAYING ALL GAY MEN ON EARTH CRAVE STRAIGHT COCK. If you are not one of those gay men that do, then why make such a fuss on this topic, move to something else, since you have clearly expressed your opinion multiple times. If this offends you, this forum offers many other topics to read and respond to. Why are you fixated on continuing expressing your point saying my post is idiotic?

You can not say that among this forum that some gay, bi, and even sometimes straight guys favor straight cocks a lot. That is the target audience that I am asking these questions, NOT YOU OBVIOUSLY.

There are plenty of topics for the ask a straight man forum that I do not fall into, so I don’t go on those threads and get triggered because they assume or ask something directed to a straight guy.

For instance, there are some straight guys here that like to compare. I don’t go on those threads, and say, why do you assume that straight guys want to compare, not all straight guys compare you idiot.

It seems childish to steep down to a level where the question that was not directed to you, since you obviously do not favor straight cock. I simply asked a question.

This is absolutely the correct forum to ask gay men if they favor straight cock, where else should I ask, the Food Network?

Anyway, for those gay, bi, and straight men, who actually like straight cock more, let’s continue our conversation.
 

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First I need to know, how to identify a straight cock?
Then also comes, how to identify a straight man?
Is it, he is saying so, or he is married with a girl, or what can be the factor to define that?
We create lebels, we create stereotyping, & we claim we are this or that, we try to be in lebel.
Then finally, we mix everything.
 

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Dude, of all the the people that I interact on this forum, you really have such an attitude.

I have said multiple times that in my experience, a lot of gay or bisexual guys on this forum really crave straight cock. I AM NOT SAYING ALL GAY MEN ON EARTH CRAVE STRAIGHT COCK. If you are not one of those gay men that do, then why make such a fuss on this topic, move to something else, since you have clearly expressed your opinion multiple times. If this offends you, this forum offers many other topics to read and respond to. Why are you fixated on continuing expressing your point saying my post is idiotic?

You can not say that among this forum that some gay, bi, and even sometimes straight guys favor straight cocks a lot. That is the target audience that I am asking these questions, NOT YOU OBVIOUSLY.

There are plenty of topics for the ask a straight man forum that I do not fall into, so I don’t go on those threads and get triggered because they assume or ask something directed to a straight guy.

For instance, there are some straight guys here that like to compare. I don’t go on those threads, and say, why do you assume that straight guys want to compare, not all straight guys compare you idiot.

It seems childish to steep down to a level where the question that was not directed to you, since you obviously do not favor straight cock. I simply asked a question.

This is absolutely the correct forum to ask gay men if they favor straight cock, where else should I ask, the Food Network?

Anyway, for those gay, bi, and straight men, who actually like straight cock more, let’s continue our conversation.

Just ignore him.

So back to the question at hand. I read somewhere, and this is kind of heavy and sad, that for many gay men the desire to suck or have sex with a straight men has to do with the ultimate acceptance fantasy so I guess if you got teased a lot for being gay, you would have a bigger drive to want to suck a straight cock.

Like Malakos pointed out, this is not every single gay men fantasy but it is one of the most common fantasies. In fact, it is nearly Universal at least among my age group.

So there is that. ;) we simply crave to be accepted.
 

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I like to be the first to suck a guys dick that has never been sucked by a guy before. I remember how great it was when the first guy sucked my dick and i want the new guy to enjoy it as much as i did, to be sucked by a guy and hope that it leads him to wanting to suck a dick, just like it made me want to suck a dick - i did and found i loved sucking dicks

Lol I know this is probably not true but I have always thought that the only guys who dont like sucking dick are the ones who have never tried one :p
 

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Lol I know this is probably not true but I have always thought that the only guys who dont like sucking dick are the ones who have never tried one :p

I agree, once guys try it, they love it as much as i do. Wished i had started sooner in life sucking dicks. I missed to many hard young cocks
 
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