I know i know.....another one of those threads. but i'd really like to get your opinion on this one. u see, i have a friend and he's really a friend who everybody thinks he's gay. Now he's not overtly effiminate but he does from time to time have gestures that makes you wonder. But afterall, that doesn't always mean anything right? well he has a friend who swears he is gay and quite honestly i could see why that friend sees it that way. I hung out with him at gay bars and he seems quite comfortable there but yet again that doesn't mean anything. now he has a girlfriend but he doesn't even carry a pic of her on his cell but yet he does of other people. i even called him out on that one day and he didn't have an answer really. Instinctively i feel he'll come out of the closet one day. perhaps now he's just uhhhh discovering himself. he's young in his early 20's. what do u think??