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Everyone hears the story about the guys that hit on girls. The girls say No, but the guy continues to hit on the girl, all night. Ussually until the girl leaves or the guys gets kicked out. Or in worse case scenario a physical fight breaks out.
Here is my story. Yesterday night, a gay guy decided to hit on me. I am a very straight male, and I politely let him know that I'm straight and was not interested. He kept pushing and pushing trying to get me to be with him, until I had to be rude. I rudely asked him to back off, and he kept going.
Finally I informed the bartender, and the bartender warned him to stop or he'll be asked to leave.
I am not a violent person but I was temped to punch the guy out.
Has anyone else ever has a similar experience of just PUSHY and ANNOYING gay people that just won't take a hint. I have been told by friends that say Gay people will try to convert you, and they won't take no for an answer, and they hover around you if they like you. Until last night, I have never met a gay person like that, and I must say it was very un-nerving and made me feel uncomfortable.
So was it ok for me to become rude, should I have handled it differently, anyone have a similar experience, and how did you handle it?
Everyone hears the story about the guys that hit on girls. The girls say No, but the guy continues to hit on the girl, all night. Ussually until the girl leaves or the guys gets kicked out. Or in worse case scenario a physical fight breaks out.
Here is my story. Yesterday night, a gay guy decided to hit on me. I am a very straight male, and I politely let him know that I'm straight and was not interested. He kept pushing and pushing trying to get me to be with him, until I had to be rude. I rudely asked him to back off, and he kept going.
Finally I informed the bartender, and the bartender warned him to stop or he'll be asked to leave.
I am not a violent person but I was temped to punch the guy out.
Has anyone else ever has a similar experience of just PUSHY and ANNOYING gay people that just won't take a hint. I have been told by friends that say Gay people will try to convert you, and they won't take no for an answer, and they hover around you if they like you. Until last night, I have never met a gay person like that, and I must say it was very un-nerving and made me feel uncomfortable.
So was it ok for me to become rude, should I have handled it differently, anyone have a similar experience, and how did you handle it?