Gay people being over the top at times when commenting

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When he posted this, his avatar was a photo of his body in profile, which gave a clear view of the shape/size of his backside. The current avatar is a default the site assigned to him when, presumably, he took his uploaded image down.
Oh, well that might have added to the confusion.
 
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I lurk on these forums mostly...I usually recognize who's posting by their name and/or avatar. I assumed you were female based on your name and avatar. Oops...
 

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When you put something out there like that you should not be surprised at all the different comments you get. I would just not pay to much attention to it. I think I might like to try getting fucked just once for the experience. Any fuck buddies out there?
 

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What?!....you mean posting pics of your erect penis on a website devoted to big dicks resulted in gay men making sexually explicit comments?.... someone fetch my smelling salts, I'm going to faint......

Seriously, who do you think looks at the pics here? I can tell you right now 99% of them are not women....

This made me smile. I agree absolutely.

I recently discussed this with an LPSG friend. He asked if some of the comments on my pictures upset or offended me. I told him that, while some comments may be a little over-the-top, I try to respond politely and with humour. It is possible to make it plain you're not really interested in gay sex without offending the person commenting.

I don't think a gay remark necessarily implies that some guy really wants to suck my dick or believes that I want him to - most comments are just comically flirtatious. It's not as though some gay guy is right alongside me and expecting me to come across before the evening's through!

I agree with most of the others here - Don't post pictures of your huge boner and expect that only women will respond. Just lighten up a bit, BiggestBooty - even unwanted admiration is better than being ignored totally!
 

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I think I echo many of the other posters - it's likely intended as a compliment, and you should just take it as that (or translate it into "another man who appreciates cocks thinks that mine is quite nice"). There are people who explicitly ask only straight women to respond, and perhaps you should do that.

This site is an odd combination of an online gay bar (or bathhouse), a men's support group (gay and straight) and a place for women to talk openly about their sexual experiences (and for some preferably only with each other). I stepped into a wymen's discussion on here a while back, and thought I posted something thoughtful, and I now have a second anus, due apparently to the thoughtlessness of my comments. We have a gay bar in Chicago (and similar ones in other cities) where people go downstairs take off their clothes and expect people to fondle them. A woman entered the bar, went downstairs and then got upset at the bar when she was groped.

Obviously this woman did not deserve to get groped, but she entered a space where it was expected. If she was penetrated against her will then someone would be doing twenty years. And we return to the tame instance of you walking into the online gay bar, getting your cock out (in the downstairs room mind you), saying they find you hot, and that they (and I haven't checked out the distance between you), have an entirely appropriate sexual fantasy about the situation.

They shared that, which is what this site is for, imagining while they came that you were gay or "straight". (I haven't even looked at these apparently hot photos yet - what is wrong with me).

If you are uncomfortable about gay guys jerking off to your images, then you need to go to tindr, or a real life club downtown, or move to a site where posting your cock online is a women's only affair.

And I will say that I think it is appalling how women are treated on this site, and you shouldn't have the constant harrassment that I assume you do. I also assume you wouldn't walk naked into a men's locker room.

Matthew
 
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This made me smile. I agree absolutely.

I recently discussed this with an LPSG friend. He asked if some of the comments on my pictures upset or offended me. I told him that, while some comments may be a little over-the-top, I try to respond politely and with humour. It is possible to make it plain you're not really interested in gay sex without offending the person commenting.

I don't think a gay remark necessarily implies that some guy really wants to suck my dick or believes that I want him to - most comments are just comically flirtatious. It's not as though some gay guy is right alongside me and expecting me to come across before the evening's through!

I agree with most of the others here - Don't post pictures of your huge boner and expect that only women will respond. Just lighten up a bit, BiggestBooty - even unwanted admiration is better than being ignored totally!


I am flattered if someone tells me they would like to suck my cock. Sometimes, I feel like I would let them. Never been fucked but sometime if I had a good looking guy that would teach me the ropes and be gentle with me I might let him fuck me for the experience.
If you don't want all of what comes with spreading your legs don't spread them! I would love for a gay guy to tell me what if feels like to be fucked. I have seen porn films where they look like they are in heaven. don't know if they are doped or if it feels that good!
 
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