A guy I dated many years ago has recently been back in touch with me, and is hitting on me hard. He lives 70 miles away now after having lived in California for awhile. He is 12 years younger than me. For dating purposes, it is a little out of my normal range now. I like guys upper 30s plus. He is successful, intelligent, cute, big there, likes me, and sweet. But he has developed some weird fetishes over the years that I am totally not into. Really makes me shake my head. Nothing overly funky, just strange and a turnoff. Wondering where to go with this. Get over it? I was not looking for a relationship at this point, but he is really pressuring me, and I don't want to throw it away if it might be good. This is the most open minded board I know, so thought a person or two could provide an opinion.