Well-said, trucker.Now words of advice. Do not let 'little' things drive a wedge between you two. There is nothing that will come between you quicker than the 'thought' of your man 'thinking' about someone else. Jealousy is like cancer in a gay relationship and it will grow and kill the love you have.
Too many people have been conditioned to believe the romantic notion that once you find your mate, everyone else suddenly becomes unattractive. That's just unrealistic, and unrealistic parameters in a relationship set it up to fail.
Some idealism is great, but it's much better to be pragmatic about relationship dynamics, if you want to succeed.