Christianity offers a gospel of love, of God's love for us, our love for God and our love for one another. This is the central message.
Yes, if you look hard enough you can find passages in the Bible which condemn homosexuality. There are passages in the Bible which condemn those who wear clothes made from mixed fibres or don't cut their hair in the required manner. Some obscure OT passages describes brutal events which appear to be approved - genocide and rape - while the OT and NT say some pretty negative things about women.
The Bible is written by men, translated by men, interpreted by men. There is a view that says the Bible is a reflection of the word of God, not directly the word of God. All ages should take from it the broad message, but all ages have trouble with the detail, and the Bible-thumpers who argue "the Bible says" + obscure quote + "therefore you must do / not do x else go to hell" - these in my view have miss-read the totality of the Bible and missed the important, central message.
What is important is the way in which you live your life. Live your life with love: for God, for your neighbour, for yourself. These things determine the fate of your soul, not whether you happen to be gay or straight, or whether you have red hair or a big nose.
You make a very good point, Jason. As you pointed out, there are differences between the Old and New Testaments. However, it is prudent to know that the new testament is what the Christian faith mostly bases their law and beliefs off of. Because in reality, the times before the birth of Christ, according to the Bible, were times of great turbulence. People were brutally struck down by God for "small" sins such as working on Sabbath. However, these punishments of sinners were drastically toned down after the death of Christ because, as all Christians know, Christ died for the sins of mankind... thus making it a moot point to strike a man/woman down for sinning. Now, all a man need do is ask for forgiveness and accept Christ as his savior to gain entrance to heaven.
Now to the point: it specifically states in the NEW TESTAMENT that homosexuality is an act that forbids the homosexual from inheriting the kingdom of God.
REMEMBER: THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CONSIDERING YOURSELF GAY AND COMMITTING HOMOSEXUAL ACTS.
1 Corinthians 6:9 - 10 (King James Version)
9: "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God"
Pretty self explanatory.
You can argue all you want about the corruptibility of the bible's authors and the chance that it was tampered with... but the fact that Christians are to follow the word of God, which IS the Bible, is still absolutely mandatory for a Christian. It isn't ignorance and its NOT "gay- bashing." Its just a large group of people doing what they believe their God is telling them to do... and nobody is in a position to dispute the validity of what the Bible says, just as nobody is in a position yet to dispute the validity of the theory of evolution.
However, you can ask for forgiveness of your sins, and you will be forgiven, according to the Christian Bible. Also according to the Christian Bible, yielding to the power of Christ/God/Holy Spirit along with confessing your sins to God will grant you entrance to Heaven... so if you were considering yourself gay before you asked for forgiveness, you'll be forgiven for any homosexual act. It isn't as much of the asking for forgiveness as much as it is the fight of temptation to sin.
Also, the Christian doctrine states that God does not make mistakes.
"Great is our Lord, and of great power: His understanding is infinite" (Psalms 147:5)
The use of the term "his understanding is infinite" would never be used to describe someone that is capable of making mistakes... hence the word INFINITE. Also, it is stated that God made mankind in his image.
"So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." Genesis 1:27
After reading those two passages, it is clear that a.) God does not make mistakes and b.) God made man in his own image. That would mean that God designed mankind to be straight and not Gay, because it was clearly stated in Corinthians that homosexuality is forbidden... PLUS, God does not make mistakes according to the Psalms verse. So that would mean that homosexuality is a trait acquired after birth because to make a person unlike himself would be a mistake, yes? And as stated above, God does not make mistakes.
To disagree with the above paragraph would be directly disagreeing with biblical verses. So if you disagree, you wouldn't consider yourself a Christian anyway... because you can't have a view that directly contradicts the Christian Bible and still claim to be a Christian.
Just a note to all of those ignorant people out there: I have nothing against homosexuals. I do not judge because it is not my place to judge. If you are gay and have talked with me in chat, then you know I'm pretty cool and not a "gay- basher." I'm just stating what is verbatim from the Christian Bible...