Gay Roommate Attraction Dilema

[petite]

I've lived with multiple roommates a few times when I was your age and I've seen what happens when two roommates hook up. I know that there are exceptions, but with my roomies, every single time two of them hooked up, it lasted for about two-three weeks, one of them started acting weird or developed an interest in someone else, and then there was the trouble and discomfort of one or both of them quickly having to find a new place to live, or new roommates, leaving me and my other roomies with the responsibility of finding their replacements.

My recommendation would be to avoid getting involved.

 

[mattsrod7]

def. don't date him now, you should try fooling around. walk back naked after the shower or have your towel fall when you're walking back. leave your door cracked open a bit or unlocked when you whack off after drinking with him or something.

 

[pablovian]

Sooooo - what's going on...???

 

[jjsjr]

Just be friends.... because no matter what happens, you can have a great friendship.

With that said, once you're good solid friends (let's say 3 months) ...
you can move on to being 'Friends with Benefits.'

 

[DanDingo]

DONT DO IT, we Had the same kinda Situation at my school, a set of roommates in a single sex floor, they were intimate the first night and afterwards on decided he only wanted him for that one night, and it was really awkward, and some how every on on the campus found out. Thats how im retelling the story

 

[DeeRock]

Update????

 

[Pecker Check]

I say listen to the buzzer(rider7). His advice is right on the money.

 

[ericbythebay]

You're living together, you are going to spend more time with him than anyone else on campus, you're already "dating." You may as well get to know the guy before escalating things.

 

[jd04]

haha, now i'm just intrigued as to what happens!

I would agree with other's on the 'dont do it', but I know how hard it is to stop yourself as well. You have your whole college ahead of you, there will be heaps of guys...wish I accepted my gayness in college, could have been so much more fun!

 

[fresh88]

Sorry for the LONG delay in updating. Turns out he is in to asain boys. we went to an event at our schools LGBT center and he met a boy that he has been dating now since last year. I am more than over the whole situation not for any negative reasons. He is a great and still sexy guy but it is apparent just how hard I was crushing before. Thanks for all the advice before guys! It was much appreciated. Taking it slow was def the best approach...no akwardness now between us.