Gay sex ed videos

[Brodie888]

As we all know, gay porn is a very bad way to train someone to be a good lover.

Has anyone come across a video series to teach guys both the basics and more advanced techniques?

 

[HotBulge]

Tech Boy and Friends features an interracial couple, the older hung, Black man TechBoy and his white college friend Jared. They are/were based in Seattle, I believe. Several years ago, they published a few instructional videos on gay sex on Xtube. I have copy/pasted some of the links below

[1] How to Suck Cock

[2] How to Fuck

[3] Fucking & Rimming

You may also want to investigate gay tantric sex. There is a series with a German narrator who shows the same gay . male couple involved in a tantric exploration of sex. (Let me see about finding some links later). Instead of a focus on the mechanics of sex, the tantric focus focuses on how to be more aware of your partner's pleasure which, in turn, enhances you own.

 

[Brodie888]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph559d241a6dc5d

A bit cheesy but some good advice too.

 

[Titanomachina]

Tech Boy and Friends features an interracial couple, the older hung, Black man TechBoy and his white college friend Jared. They are/were based in Seattle, I believe. Several years ago, they published a few instructional videos on gay sex on Xtube. I have copy/pasted some of the links below

[1] How to Suck Cock

[2] How to Fuck

[3] Fucking & Rimming

You may also want to investigate gay tantric sex. There is a series with a German narrator who shows the same gay . male couple involved in a tantric exploration of sex. (Let me see about finding some links later). Instead of a focus on the mechanics of sex, the tantric focus focuses on how to be more aware of your partner's pleasure which, in turn, enhances you own.

I have to disagree about your partner's pleasure enhancing your own. For me it just seems like I'm missing out on something.

That being said, it's mostly mental. The largest sex organ in the human body is the brain. If your mind isn't in it, then you won't get much out of it.

 

[HotBulge]

The assertions are not mutually exclusive. Good/tantric sex can be both (1) about having your partner's pleasure enhance your own and (2) using your mind to enhance the sexual experience. Let's stick the OP's original question about learning how to be a better lover from sources other than highly scripted, exaggerated gay porn. Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that has been going for over 5,000 years+ ; perhaps we can benefit from thousands of years of accumulated experience and wisdom.

I have to disagree about your partner's pleasure enhancing your own. For me it just seems like I'm missing out on something.

That being said, it's mostly mental. The largest sex organ in the human body is the brain. If your mind isn't in it, then you won't get much out of it.

I have to disagree about your partner's pleasure enhancing your own. For me it just seems like I'm missing out on something.

That being said, it's mostly mental. The largest sex organ in the human body is the brain. If your mind isn't in it, then you won't get much out of it.

 

[Titanomachina]

The assertions are not mutually exclusive. Good/tantric sex can be both (1) about having your partner's pleasure enhance your own and (2) using your mind to enhance the sexual experience. Let's stick the OP's original question about learning how to be a better lover from sources other than highly scripted, exaggerated gay porn. Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that has been going for over 5,000 years+ ; perhaps we can benefit from thousands of years of accumulated experience and wisdom.

There is a logical fallacy about doing something just because it's been done for many years. Ancient wisdom isn't always so wise.

 

[HotBulge]

We don't need to debate a non-issue; we can leave the exercises from "Rhetoric and Debate 101" aside. There are multiple paths to gaining greater awareness and understanding about one's sexuality. It is a personal journey and exploration. One can learn from the experience of others, or one can learn about sexuality in isolation, or some point in the middle. The paths are manifold.

By the way, I never implied that ancient wisdom was/is the be-all, authoritative experience. The tantric tradition is one avenue to explore among several options.

There is a logical fallacy about doing something just because it's been done for many years. Ancient wisdom isn't always so wise.

 

[linniejr]

Tech Boy and Friends features an interracial couple, the older hung, Black man TechBoy and his white college friend Jared. They are/were based in Seattle, I believe. Several years ago, they published a few instructional videos on gay sex on Xtube. I have copy/pasted some of the links below

[1] How to Suck Cock

[2] How to Fuck

[3] Fucking & Rimming

You may also want to investigate gay tantric sex. There is a series with a German narrator who shows the same gay . male couple involved in a tantric exploration of sex. (Let me see about finding some links later). Instead of a focus on the mechanics of sex, the tantric focus focuses on how to be more aware of your partner's pleasure which, in turn, enhances you own.

Hey HotBuldge,
Your last statement is so true. the focus should be on how to be more aware of your partner's pleasure which, in turn, enhances you own. That's something both tops and bottoms should always keep in mind.

 

[linniejr]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph559d241a6dc5d

A bit cheesy but some good advice too.

You were right a bit cheesy, but some good advice.

 

[linniejr]

Tech Boy and Friends features an interracial couple, the older hung, Black man TechBoy and his white college friend Jared. They are/were based in Seattle, I believe. Several years ago, they published a few instructional videos on gay sex on Xtube. I have copy/pasted some of the links below

[1] How to Suck Cock

[2] How to Fuck

[3] Fucking & Rimming

You may also want to investigate gay tantric sex. There is a series with a German narrator who shows the same gay . male couple involved in a tantric exploration of sex. (Let me see about finding some links later). Instead of a focus on the mechanics of sex, the tantric focus focuses on how to be more aware of your partner's pleasure which, in turn, enhances you own.

Thanks for posting these, had forgotten these vids. Saw them sometime ago.

 

[Straightmenbi]

Anyone have this videos anymore?