gay sex...satisfy my curiosity?

[dolfette]

'k, so there's a choice of hand, oral or butt...giving or receiving...?
but obviously not all guys are into everything...
so how many of you like what?
do you like anal, but only on the giving end?
or are you strictly oral?

call me weird but i suddenly got curious about the percentages.

 

[PornForPatric]

Well, the answers on this one should be interesting.

Personally, I really go for fucking (top) and oral (bottom). I have to admit, I've never much been into getting fucked, until I met my current boyfriend. His cock is the most perfect cock I've ever seen (and I've seen more than most) and the man knows just how to work it. I finally understand why so many of the men I fucked love being fucked!

I've dated a guy who was absolutely against giving head. Anal was totally fine, but giving or receiving he thought was "fucking gross".

 

[dolfette]

Well, the answers on this one should be interesting.

Personally, I really go for fucking (top) and oral (bottom). I have to admit, I've never much been into getting fucked, until I met my current boyfriend. His cock is the most perfect cock I've ever seen (and I've seen more than most) and the man knows just how to work it. I finally understand why so many of the men I fucked love being fucked!

I've dated a guy who was absolutely against giving head. Anal was totally fine, but giving or receiving he thought was "fucking gross".

many women hate anal and/or oral...so i figured some guys will feel that way too.

heh, and get what you mean about receiving anal!

thank you for your reply :smile:

 

[vince]

I guess I am a total top. Except I like to give hand jobs to well hung guys. Does that make me selfish? A guy once told me that I was selfish because I wouldn't give him a blow job. I just don't want to give head or have a dick in my ass.

 

[hotbtminla]

Not so much into hand-jobs here. I mean, I can do that myself. :tongue:

I've never said no to getting head though, and dig giving it as well. When it comes to fucking I am a confirmed and enthusiastic bottom. Not sure why I love getting fucked as much as I do, but it is second favorite thing to do in a bed after "sleep." :biggrin1:

 

[Brendnj]

I've always been a believer that some men refusing to 'service' other men (in regard to being the bottom or giving head) have some sort of mental, perhaps unconscious, hangup about the idea. I've found that most 'bi' guys I've been with wanted to receive all of the service without giving any so I was lead to believe that they felt it made them somehow less gay if they weren't fully participating.

Disagree as you will, but that's my theory.

I always think sex is generally more fun if both parties are versatile and willing to take different roles.

 

[Principessa]

I've always been a believer that some men refusing to 'service' other men (in regard to being the bottom or giving head) have some sort of mental, perhaps unconscious, hangup about the idea.

I've found that most 'bi' guys I've been with wanted to receive all of the service without giving any so I was lead to believe that they felt it made them somehow less gay if they weren't fully participating.

I've heard that too; but on this site I have noticed most of the bi-guys appear to be very enthusuiastic tops.

Disagree as you will, but that's my theory.

I always think sex is generally more fun if both parties are versatile and willing to take different roles.

I agree, I'm kinda curious about what it's like to use a strap-on, on a guy.

 

[PornForPatric]

I've always been a believer that some men refusing to 'service' other men (in regard to being the bottom or giving head) have some sort of mental, perhaps unconscious, hangup about the idea...I always think sex is generally more fun if both parties are versatile and willing to take different roles.

I never understand the "I'll fuck you, but you'll never fuck me" guys. I understand you can be a total top. But if the reason you won't get fucked is simply because you think it will make you less of a man...well, does it make your boyfriend/partner/trick less of a man for letting you fuck him.

As for giving head...some men have made me feel like a Fleshlight with a heartbeat. Seriously, I'm there to have sex with you, not for you!

Bi guys...well, I've only been with a few, but most seemed to want to do anything and everything. Dunno if it is because they don't get with a guy often enough and are binging or if they just want to experience all they can about that part of their sexual being. NJQT, I'd say most of the Bi men I've been with start out as tops, then get into bottoming and later become versatile. Just my experience. BTW, gay as I am...I'd definitely want to see you pegging a guy!

 

[Brendnj]

I've heard that too; but on this site I have noticed most of the bi-guys appear to be very enthusuiastic tops..[/color][/size][/font][/b]

I wasn't clear in what I said. By receive all of the service, I meant that I found they only wanted to top or given oral. They wanted all the attention in the situation without reciprocating. Albeit I haven't read this site that long, but if you statement that they bi men appear enthusiastic tops holds true...that bolsters my original theory.

 

[dolfette]

I guess I am a total top. Except I like to give hand jobs to well hung guys. Does that make me selfish? A guy once told me that I was selfish because I wouldn't give him a blow job. I just don't want to give head or have a dick in my ass.

there were a few posts after this...

but my take on it it this,
if you hate the feeling of having your arse fucked, it's not selfish to refuse. why would any partner want you doing something you don't enjoy? because surely sex is all about mutual enjoyment?
the same goes for sucking...some people just get nothing from it and the taste/texture turns their guts.

i don't think this makes a person selfish. i think it just narrows down their potential partners to those who get off on giving.

that's my theory :wink:

 

[dickthrobbing]

Sex is about giving pleasure to someone else and for them to give you something that gives you pleasure

so me I am game for all of it :smile: I am a slut though :tongue:

 

[flame boy]

I cleared the board, checked them all!!

Although I must add that although I have done a guy up the butt, that really aint my thaaang!

 

[pdmdave]

I was born to bottom and I do with great enthusiasm. It's the mutts nuts to have a guy work you.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

I like giving oral more then i like receiving
I like receiving anal and given the chance id like to give anal

(to a man or woman)

 

[dolfette]

I was born to bottom and I do with great enthusiasm. It's the mutts nuts to have a guy work you.

*points up* have you met vince? :biggrin1:

 

[zawfi]

I checked all but the two questions about anal sex. I have little interest in that, giving or receiving. On a related note, I have no interest in giving head to a woman, although I do like giving head to a guy.

I like your comments on sexual preference, dolfette. I agree that a person who has a dislike of certain sexual maneuvers is not necessarily selfish, any more than someone who insists on doing certain things is selfish. If two people don't agree on what makes sex enjoyable, then they aren't likely to be compatible in bed, but that doesn't mean they can't find other sexual partners who like what they do.

 

[erratic]

It's been my experience that oral and handjobs are basically a must, and most gay men are very enthusiastic about how good they are at oral (whether or not they turn out to be any good). As a gross generalization there are three camps in terms of anal: Those who love it, those who are okay with it, and those who don't do it. Most guys are in the first category, I'm in the second. It can be really enjoyable, but not everyone's body is built to take it, and if you give it you can't really go back to oral afterward, so it's the end of the road. Anal just doesn't allow for switching back and forth between different activities.