Gay Sex Sounds Very Painful.

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Hey cuties, I think it’s time I talk about sex. This is a fucking website for adults after all! Then again, other adult content like bloody violence and illegal drugs aren’t allowed on these websites for obvious reasons, but anything goes with profanity as long as we aren’t using slurs.

Anyway, enough of me going on a tangent! I want to lose my virginity to a gay guy like you one day, but I’m hearing that gay sex is painful especially with those monster cocks I always dreamed of jerking off. I’m also worried about the STD; gay men can get sick from fucking without a properly worn condom! Do condoms even feel great in the asshole?

And don’t bottoms cry while getting a cock up their ass? I don’t want me or my future boyfriend feeling sad during sex; that turns me off!

I hope you cuties can address my concerns.
 
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Hey bro,

Everyone was a virgin at one time or another. That can suck because of worrying about how't'll be like.
If you're a romantic you might just want to find a cute guy and start by making out and kissing.
And if you're a horny guy who just wants to fuck, that is still a good way to start out by the way.


You're right about safe sex (wearing a condom) to prevent STD's. But that's not much different than with straight sex.
HIV is a big one to watch out for, and when you feel like you want to fuck or get fucked it is good to realise that penetrative anal sex (fucking) does cary a higher risk to both you guys. You might also want to talk to your family practitioner about safe sex and talk about going on PrEP as an EXTRA precautionary measure.

Looking back to way back when I started having sex (and dinosaurs ruled the world) I'm glad fucking wasn't the first thing I did. It's fun to work up to that. And in the mean time you can still go solo, know what you like with your dick and with your ass. Especially if your boyfriend will be Hung it pays to be prepared and have a bit of self-practice.
Play with them, end use your common sense about what you put up your poop-shooter...

You wouldn't be the first man that would have gone the emergency room to have something removed when it gets stuck.

I think 'Gay Sex: A Manual For Men Who Love Men' is still in print and deals with all these and other subjects concerning sex between men. Get it, read it.
And if your mother's like mine back then and tends to throw a fit don't let her find it if you still live at home.


First time you have sex you will suck at it. Like anything else you'll have to learn.

Now get the bucket out because I'm permitting myself to finish by being nauseatingly sweet...
Find a dude you actually like, besides having the hots for.
It'll be the first time. It'll suck. But you never forget your first.
So it's good when looking back that it was nice.

I'm not worried about you hurting anyone. It's sweet you voice your concerns about that.

Now go out there and remember to have FUN.
And as you're not asking your dad I'll say what he should: Be good! And if you can't be good: Be careful!

Tata
 

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I never cried from getting a cock up my ass; I welcomed every one of them, and many have been huge (not to mention my big toys and getting fisted). The male body is capable of amazing sexual stimulation and pleasure, especially with other males. Take time to kick back with a guy or 2 or 10 and really explore your body and theirs. You will be amazed at the places all over our bodies that can cause sexual pleasure and stimulation in addition to our cocks and asses.

I am in PrEP and I have a lot of sex partners. STI's are a hazard of the sport that is male on male sex. Get tested frequently if you are like me and play frequently.
 
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I never cried from getting a cock up my ass; I welcomed every one of them, and many have been huge (not to mention my big toys and getting fisted). The male body is capable of amazing sexual stimulation and pleasure, especially with other males. Take time to kick back with a guy or 2 or 10 and really explore your body and theirs. You will be amazed at the places all over our bodies that can cause sexual pleasure and stimulation in addition to our cocks and asses.

I am in PrEP and I have a lot of sex partners. STI's are a hazard of the sport that is male on male sex. Get tested frequently if you are like me and play frequently.

Yes, but MuscledHorse is special. ;-)

Just like to add that STI's / STD's are not a thing unique to male on male sex. When guys and girls go anal they also have a higher risk to catch HIV.
Just thought I'd bring some light to this subject.
 

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Yes, but MuscledHorse is special. ;-)

Just like to add that STI's / STD's are not a thing unique to male on male sex. When guys and girls go anal they also have a higher risk to catch HIV.
Just thought I'd bring some light to this subject.
I will add that while I view sex as it should be: a normal Natural pleasure sport and that STI's are a hazard of the game I cannot stress enough the importance of getting tested regularly when you play. And I will say based on my experiences that the gay community is far better at this than the non-gay worlds, mainly because testing has been drilled into us as fallout from the AIDS?HIV crisis of the 1980-90's. Case in point: this year I went to CLAW in Cleveland. Over the 5 days I was there I had over 100 sex partners. I returned home and was fine at my post event testing. No STI's. a month later I went to a mixed Furry event. I had about a dozen partners, easily half of them bisexual identified, that did not involve big toys or fisting (went to a big party for those while at the event). My follow up testing from that weekend, I had to get a penicillin shot, a ceftrixone shot and 1,000mg of azithromycin. So my message here is play like the animals in heat we are, just be responsible about it and get tested regularly!
 

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Yes, but MuscledHorse is special. ;-)

Just like to add that STI's / STD's are not a thing unique to male on male sex. When guys and girls go anal they also have a higher risk to catch HIV.
Just thought I'd bring some light to this subject.
Oh, don’t worry. I know straight sex can spread disease if the couple isn’t fucking safely. Isn’t it obvious?
I wonder if lesbian sex has STD risks even though I’m currently a cis man who loves other cis men.
 
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Oh, don’t worry. I know straight sex can spread disease if the couple isn’t fucking safely. Isn’t it obvious?
I wonder if lesbian sex has STD risks even though I’m currently a cis man who loves other cis men.
Yep, lesbian sex does have STD risk. There are lots of lesbians who don’t go for Pap smears because they assume they can’t get HPV and may be at higher risk of cervical cancer than those who do attend their screening appointments
 

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Yep, lesbian sex does have STD risk. There are lots of lesbians who don’t go for Pap smears because they assume they can’t get HPV and may be at higher risk of cervical cancer than those who do attend their screening appointments

Thanks for the clarification! Wait. Do Pap smears involve blood? Maybe I shouldn’t ask...
 
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Oh, don’t worry. I know straight sex can spread disease if the couple isn’t fucking safely. Isn’t it obvious?
I wonder if lesbian sex has STD risks even though I’m currently a cis man who loves other cis men.

And is there one guy in particular you like at the moment ?
 
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Good luck.

You're in Maryland, right?
Perhaps try in real life, in a bigger city.


 
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I would suggest getting a variety of anal sex toys so you get to know how your ass works. If you don't know how to work your prostate you are missing out on a lot.

The only reason anal sex is unbearably painful is because you don't know what you are doing or you need more foreplay.

It may be a good idea to play in the minor leagues to begin with before you play with the big boys. Tell your partner you are "new to all this, take it easy at first".

In terms of feel, there's not much difference between condoms vs bare. It's advisable to take prep to minimize HIV risk.

You still need to be tested regularly regardless. Things like genital warts can be passed even with condoms.
 
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I would suggest getting a variety of anal sex toys so you get to know how your ass works. If you don't know how to work your prostate you are missing out on a lot.

The only reason anal sex is unbearably painful is because you don't know what you are doing or you need more foreplay.

It may be a good idea to play in the minor leagues to begin with before you play with the big boys. Tell your partner you are "new to all this, take it easy at first".

In terms of feel, there's not much difference between condoms vs bare. It's advisable to take prep to minimize HIV risk.

You still need to be tested regularly regardless. Things like genital warts can be passed even with condoms.

It's good to know that some tops, just can't relax enough to be penetrated.
Or just don't like it.

@Gaymes99 you don't have to like everything you could do.
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it or stop doing it.

And have fun. That's also not entirely unimportant.
 
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If you're expecting to take a large one for your first encounter without any experience sticking anything up your bum it isn't going to happen and if it did, yes, it's going to be painful.
I love to bottom and now I love taking large ones but it's a journey.
Whatever you do go slow otherwise you could hurt yourself
 

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I dont want to sound strange, but I don't know how else to put it.... I'm still at the phase were it feels like I'm having a bowel movement

It's because for the last however many years, your brain has learned to associate stimulus in your bowel as a sign you need to poop.

With time and practice, your brain will be able to differentiate the two.
 
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It's because for the last however many years, your brain has learned to associate stimulus in your bowel as a sign you need to poop.

With time and practice, your brain will be able to differentiate the two.
I hope so. Thank you.