Gay/straight Advice

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well first, banish the gay-straight dichotomy from your thinking. The obsession people have with either/or categorizing every aspect of life (gay or str8, republican or democrat, white hat-black hat, on-off)is a very naive approach to reality. Look at your sexuality as part of a large spectrum ranging from fully gay to fully straight. Sex meant to be enjoyed so just enjoy exploring what gives you stimulation and pleasure. You may find you enjoy both sexes equally or you may find you enjoy women more but men some of the time, etc. Think of sexuality like a dimmer switch in a dining room. Rather than all on or all off, there is a whole spectrum in between and you have to find what dial setting suits you best. So, explore, enjoy and don't over think it,
 

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^This. Sexuality can be, and often is, a spectrum. I've known a gay man to up and fuck a woman, just because. Hell, I knew one once that was fully gay in every other way but liked playing with tits. On the flip side, I've sucked off straight guys who do nothing else but receive great head. I've sucked off a couple of them who wanted to try sucking me in return. One hated it and stopped almost immediately, and the other found he kind of enjoyed it. I've had straight jerk off buddies, where we do nothing else but masturbate together.

I would say just enjoy the ride! Find out what you like. You might love swapping head but never want to actually fuck. You could enjoy fucking a guy, but not wanting to suck his dick. Maybe you just like tugging on a nice cock. *Shrug* Have fun, explore, and do what feels good to you, man! :)
 

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Hey guys

New to the forum here.

Been experimenting with guys lately and after years of being with woman, not sure where I fit in the straight/gay scale.

Hoping to get in contact with some cool guys to swap stories and get some advice..
It’s never black and white or even grey. Sexuality is a huge spectrum, and you don’t need to fit into a box. Just think of a massive rainbow, it’s all part of the same thing but lots of different elements. Don’t get hung up on labels, you are who you are.
 
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I've started to think of sexuality in three dimensions. One axis is gay or straight, the second axis is gender identity and the third axis is asexual or polyamorous.