Gay, Straight, Bi, Oh My!!

[yngjock20]

Can I say that in the few weeks I've come to see Marley's presence in this place, I've gone from extreme to extreme in feelings towards him.

Today, I'm actually surprised at the amount of restraint he's used in this thread and the other one which I'm assuming was posted in response to this one.

The gross exaggerations and openly derrogatory remarks have simmered down quite a bit, but I do still feel a little put off by this thread.

Yes, your observations and ideas about the "types" of men who float between sexual orientations were pretty spot on; however, in noting that these threads are proliferated throughout this forum, so are responses like the OP.

Everyone's opinion should be heard if they have one, but sometimes your opinion has already been expressed and thus the need for another thread to say the same thing is quite repetitive.


What I've come to realize (and I have said this before) but, these questions won't stop ever, because there's always going to be someone with the same "problem" finding out about our little shindig and feels like they are the only one going through it. The best thing to be done would be a FAQ section at the beginning of each forum so that when a new person joins, they can see what questions have already been discussed ad nauseum.

 

[Rugbypup]

they don't have to because, supposedly, heterosexuality is natural.

Lol, here is the whole problem with your understanding of gay people. Homosexuality is as naturel as hetrosexuality. To think other wise is to invite harsh comment. Furthermore, Hetrosexuality doesn't exempt you from anything. If you can ask a question about homosexuality then the same question can be asked about hetrosexuality.

Understand this point and you might not get barked at so badly!

 

[HazelGod]

Understand this point and you might not get barked at so badly!

Don't be gay, Spark...don't be gay!

 

[B_Monster]

right on yngjock

 

[marleyisalegend]

Lol, here is the whole problem with your understanding of gay people. Homosexuality is as naturel as hetrosexuality. To think other wise is to invite harsh comment. Furthermore, Hetrosexuality doesn't exempt you from anything. If you can ask a question about homosexuality then the same question can be asked about hetrosexuality.

Understand this point and you might not get barked at so badly!

do you guys think i'm straight?? seriously i cannot tell you how much i'm NOT. and i'm not advocating that straight is normal, gay isn't, just mentioning one of the many views on homosexuality. just because i'm gay doesn't mean i don't pay attention to views that oppose it, i listen to all sides of an argument, which is why i started a poll because me and my friends have discussed this several times (the discussion began a few weeks ago when 20/20 aired a show talking about how doctors are looking for a "gay gene" to determine if homosexuality is genetic). speaking to my friends i realized that everyone isn't as comfortable with their homosexuality as i am. i hold (when i have one) my bf's hand in public, i don't bite my tongue so people will think i'm str8, but i've got friends who want partners that respect their privacy (the downlow category) and i've got friends who are unhappy with their homosexuality and haven't decided yet if this is a lifestyle they want to pursue. once again i fail to see the offense in the poll, i could learn though if someone could explain it to me without calling me a douche or any other puerile nicknames

 

[Rugbypup]

Don't be gay, Spark...don't be gay!

I'm not getting the reference?

 

[B_Nick4444]

another day that everyone's in rare form

 

[HazelGod]

I'm not getting the reference?

It's alluding to an old episode of South Park.

 

[Rugbypup]

With you now...

 

[B_Monster]

another day that everyone's in rare form

LMAO, sure gets old, I think Ill go back to counting to 25,000

 

[B_Nick4444]

LMAO, sure gets old, I think Ill go back to counting to 25,000

:beerchug2:

 

[B_Monster]

This site should be renamed:

"The Hung and the Breathless"

 

[apple jack daniels]

Can anyone actually do that?

I would like to see some straight guys answer that question.

My mom had marvelous breasts

 

[marleyisalegend]

This site should be renamed:

"The Hung and the Breathless"

ooh ooh lemme try one, The Bold and the Discontent

 

[apple jack daniels]

you're obviously confusing me with some sort of widespread totaltarian survey which this is not, i'm simply asking the men of this forum where they stand or where they are coming from as far as their sexuality, what's the harm in that?? they're not categories, they're explanations. you're obviously hyper-sensitive and looking for somebody to look down on from your almighty throne

It is a pretty nice throne, isn't it? But if that was the point, why create the goofy categories, and then make a poll, about something that many people clearly take very personally? Why wouldn't you just post the topic, explain yourself a little, and then let people talk?

 

[marleyisalegend]

It is a pretty nice throne, isn't it? But if that was the point, why create the goofy categories, and then make a poll, about something that many people clearly take very personally? Why wouldn't you just post the topic, explain yourself a little, and then let people talk?

what are we on this site for if not to speak about personal issues?? and what different does the format make?? poll or forum either way they're voicing their side and just because i did a poll doesn't mean they can't talk

 

[losangelestim]

where's the category for "fuck anything bi"?

 

[marleyisalegend]

where's the category for "fuck anything bi"?

isn't that bi??

 

[Principessa]

and what about those of us that are bi but prefer men to women?

90% gay/10% straight? You're gay, stop kidding yourself.

It's the second last "melodramatic gay" option.:biggrin1:

Good call! :lmao:

actually i'm all about the penis lol. haven't touched a female since i moved to north carolina which was in 04

We could tell. Most men who don't post their sexual preference on this site are gay or bi.

Lol, here is the whole problem with your understanding of gay people. Homosexuality is as naturel as hetrosexuality. To think other wise is to invite harsh comment. Furthermore, Hetrosexuality doesn't exempt you from anything. If you can ask a question about homosexuality then the same question can be asked about hetrosexuality.

Understand this point and you might not get barked at so badly!

He needs to proofread his posts so that people will want to discuss his posted topic(s). As it is now, he is just stirring the pot, which nobody likes even if they agree with him.

It is a pretty nice throne, isn't it? But if that was the point, why create the goofy categories, and then make a poll, about something that many people clearly take very personally? Why wouldn't you just post the topic, explain yourself a little, and then let people talk?

That's what I was just saying.

what are we on this site for if not to speak about personal issues?? and what different does the format make?? poll or forum either way they're voicing their side and just because i did a poll doesn't mean they can't talk

It's the style and manner in which you post your ideas and thoughts that makes all the difference in the world. You know this, yet you persist in being argumenatative and abrupt if not flat out rude. How's that working for you?

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

straight with a teeny tiny bi-curious side. i will always love cock though.