gay-Virgin meeting first time

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  1. musclemonkey5

    musclemonkey5 New Member

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    So here's the thing. I have never fooled around with guys but am thinking of doing so with a guy this week. ( he is really really hot), and I think hung. I know this is awkward to ask, but could you guys maybe give me some tips, especially on sucking, how to act or approach things without making a fool out of myself. ????

    Help appreciated.
     
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    Hmmm... hard to give much advice... basically, be yourself, and remember you arent a porn star! Porn isnt real! take things slow and dont over do anything...

    Oh... and watch the teeth. :p
     
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    how can you be 99% Straight?
     
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    AAARghh.... shut up... he haven't even done anything and you are picking him on percentages...

    Dude... just relax and do as much as you feel comfortable with...
     
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    Hi mate - there's some really great better sex techniques and advice for gay men here:

    Better sex for gay men

    Hope that helps, and enjoy ;-)
     
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    1. Personal hygiene never goes out of style, and soap and water are cheap. However, for me personally (and a lot of guys I know), dousing yourself with antiperspirant, body spray, and cologne are a turn-off---the smell of your clean, manly skin is enough (and be sure and treat yourself to his smell as well, which is very different from a woman's). So, be sure and clean yourself very well, long shower, pay special attention "down there", etc.

    2. As has been pointed out, this isn't porn. You don't have to try to make a porn movie. Take it slow and easy and enjoy every sensation. If something happens you don't like, it's ok to switch to something else or say, "um, not that". Don't be afraid, this is an experiment, right? So experiment.

    3. Deep-throating is a learned skill. I am very good at it, but I've had lots of practice. (As somebody else pointed out, watch out with the teeth!). With anal, if you get that far (and don't feel like you have to get that far on the first go), bottoming is a skill I'm still working on, where others are "naturals". I'm a natural top, but I'm trying to expand my horizons....The point is, don't think you're supposed to instantly be a super-great expert on all these things when this is your first trip to the rodeo....

    4. Be sure and let him know if you're feeling good. Not the over-dramatic porn stuff ("OH GOD, YEAH, DO IT TO ME, YEAH" just turns me off), but if it feels good, grunt or groan; you'll be rewarded. You want the same from him, right? Nobody wants to have sex with a "dead fish". Well, I'm sure there's that fetish somewhere, but I digress...

    5. Relax, be yourself, and enjoy it. Go with the moment. If humor is called for, do so. If you and he hit it off and the passion is firing, then rock and roll.

    I tend to think you'll go on "autopilot" :smile:
     
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    Good luck with that!
     
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    Condom Condom Condom Condom Condom Condom Condom Condom

    Str8/bi/I don't know guys tend to see condoms as only for birth control but they do serve a more useful purpose.
     
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    Hey, thanks guys. You're advise is incredibly helpful. Thanks a lot TBSPW, thanks a mega-ton MH07, I would never have thought through some of that stuff.
    And special thanks to Sab84 for sticking up for me, because I get sick of people and their labels. No, I"m not gay, and if your mind can't handle that, then fuck off. But you obviously aren't going to be fucking me ;)
    I'll have to remember your advise MH07 to make sure and let him know what feels good to me so he can do it more, and btw what did you mean by I would probably go on 'autopilot' ?? lol
     
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    Start with a lot of foreplay and open mouth kissing until you are both hot and hard. Then slowly undress him (he will probably do the same for you), tongue his nipples, then move down to his belt and undo it. Pull the pants down, and go to it! ENJOY!!!!
     
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    Maybe you're not gay, but if you're voluntarily choosing to have sex with a man, and indeed are looking forward to it, with no financial component, then you sure ain't straight. And that's something your mind needs to learn to handle.
     
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