So here's the thing. I have never fooled around with guys but am thinking of doing so with a guy this week. ( he is really really hot), and I think hung. I know this is awkward to ask, but could you guys maybe give me some tips, especially on sucking, how to act or approach things without making a fool out of myself. ????
Help appreciated.
1. Personal hygiene never goes out of style, and soap and water are cheap. However, for me personally (and a lot of guys I know), dousing yourself with antiperspirant, body spray, and cologne are a turn-off---the smell of your clean, manly skin is enough (and be sure and treat yourself to his smell as well, which is very different from a woman's). So, be sure and clean yourself very well, long shower, pay special attention "down there", etc.
2. As has been pointed out, this isn't porn. You don't have to try to make a porn movie. Take it slow and easy and enjoy every sensation. If something happens you don't like, it's ok to switch to something else or say, "um, not that". Don't be afraid, this is an experiment, right? So experiment.
3. Deep-throating is a learned skill. I am very good at it, but I've had lots of practice. (As somebody else pointed out, watch out with the teeth!). With anal, if you get that far (and don't feel like you have to get that far on the first go), bottoming is a skill I'm still working on, where others are "naturals". I'm a natural top, but I'm trying to expand my horizons....The point is, don't think you're supposed to instantly be a super-great expert on all these things when this is your first trip to the rodeo....
4. Be sure and let him know if you're feeling good. Not the over-dramatic porn stuff ("OH GOD, YEAH, DO IT TO ME, YEAH" just turns me off), but if it feels good, grunt or groan; you'll be rewarded. You want the same from him, right? Nobody wants to have sex with a "dead fish". Well, I'm sure there's that fetish somewhere, but I digress...
5. Relax, be yourself, and enjoy it. Go with the moment. If humor is called for, do so. If you and he hit it off and the passion is firing, then rock and roll.
I tend to think you'll go on "autopilot" :smile:
