GAY vs LESBIAN

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dakingfish, Jul 23, 2006.

  1. dakingfish

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    Maybe it's just me but has anyone else noticed the difference in how "straight" men act towards lesbian activities as opposed to gay? In other words, if gay men are going at in a porn film, "straight" guys are all grossed out but if a couple of chicks are going at it, they are turned on. Any thoughts?
     
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    Its a fact matey...str8 blokes love shagging women, if they can have 2 at once they would thats why they like lesbians...they dont like gay sex cos either they are homophobic or insecure, i think a lot of str8 guys think a gay bloke wants to pounce on him! :eek:)
     
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    Guilty as charged. In fact, I just spent the last 7 or so hours dreaming about it :cool:
    Guilty as charged. In fact, I just spent the last 7 or so hours dreaming about it :biggrin1:
    Or because women are just way way way more sexier. Let me choose who I want to 'sleep' with a hundred times, and I'll pick female every time. Sorry guys.
    My gallery comments seem to concur.

    *This was all done in jest, I assure you I have nothing better to do this Sunday morning*


    Oh, I have to add... I am not grossed out by gay porn in the least. It's just sex after all, but a form of it that I just don't get into at all. I can watch it without cringing or vomiting though, lemme assure you. Sometimes it's even fun to watch just to see how I size up against those blokes. I never get hard when I watch it like that though, sorry. Women are just too beautiful for me to want to fantasize about someone else!
     
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    Gay porn is missing the things that turn us on - Boobs and vaginas! When it isn't faked, the sound of women having pleasure in lesbian films is also a turn on.:084:
     
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    It really boils down to what the individual likes or dislikes. A straight person might not like lesbian scenes and Fast Forward through them to get to the m2f sex scenes in a porn film. m2m sex scenes would not be in a straight porn film, but if he viewed such a film it is possible that he could be turned on by them as the erect penis is an erotic image. In porn films men are seen trying to keep themselves erect while the other fellow is banging the chick and the camera focuses on this action too.
    Having the two sexes together enjoying sex stimulates me most of all.

    This thread also dealt with this subject to to a certain degree:
    http://www.lpsg.org/relationships-discrimination-and-jealousy/28943-girls-kiss-its-ok-guys.html
     
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    Numerous female posters who've had the grace to memorialize themselves in their galleries can I'm sure attest to numerous unwanted advances by lecherous heterosexual male suitors. I know two of those women personally.

    Answer?

    Probably not best to put your photos up at a largely gay board if you're going to ridicule the commentary.:rolleyes:
     
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    ...not that there's any real, applicable difference between the two


    yep ... and that would be the homophobia and his twin brother insecurity that you mentioned above.
     
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    Lesbian by two touchdowns.
     
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    :confused:

    I've said numerous times that I appreciate all the kind words and have personally thanked some of those who took the time to leave comment as well. I was just having a little fun with the prior response... guess that I should've asked first :frown1:

    Oh, and don't worry, I believe AA's time on lpsg is drawing to close soon anyways, so my upsetting of the balance here will soon be settled (and I promise I'll take down my photos when the time comes).
     
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    BOO gays

    YAY lesbians !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    That would be a pity, AA. Your posts have been thoughtful and contributed a lot--and I get the impression you found the relies valuable. What prompts your decision?

    I hope it's not those horny gay fellows, emboldened by the anonymity of the internet, who hit on you. You may need to make your "no" rather forceful in with some. Gay men need to do the same thing with unwanted suitors, in any case.

    But if you do depart, we wish you well.
     
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    I've mentioned before that my complete indifference to lesbian munch-outs helped me realise I'm gay. Every straight man I know salivates at the thought.

    I know of two straight men who gave their wives permission to stray with another women, as long as they came home and described it in detail.

    There was a moment on the now-defunct Roseanne when Rose tearfully confessed to Dan that she had a lesbian fantasy in a dream. His reply? "What was she wearing?"

    The late Sam Kinison, my hero and sage in matters of sexual politics, put it this way. "I don't care if they don't want me involved. Just let me watch. More TITTIES for DADDY!"

    Ah. Go figure.
     
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    I never really answered the question at hand, so first of all: I consider myself 'straight' I guess (not really a fan of definite/rigid labels, especially not dual natured ones but whatever) and when I watch porn it's way more about the woman for me. Her pleasure. How she's being pleasured. Who she looks like. What I'd do to her. Etc, etc. Gay porn has no women, so for the more reserved guys like me, there's nothing to fantasize about and thus nothing to jerk off to, end of story. Also I grew up/live in a very conservative town - the kind where gays get outed and beat up for it... guys like that are not and never will admit to finding any sort of pleasure in two men together. Just the way life is 'round here and abroad I guess.
    First of all, thank you headbang, it's good to know somebody liked some of my posts here instead of just my pics...

    You know, I'm not behind my monitor jerking off when I'm on the boards here. I have some experience with a supposed 'large penis' and try to help out when I can. I can't help my sense of humor, it's just the way I am though... I grew up in a very angry, strict environment, my sense of humor is the only way I was able to get where I am without losing my mind, there's no doubt in my head about that. I'm sorry if I ever upset anyone with it.

    My decision to leave when I do will have nothing to do with the site or any of it's users, or at least I don't foresee that being the case. It's summer vacation for me, and I was fired from my job. I have a lot of free time until I go back to school, and when I'm not with friends I spend a lot of (read: too much) time on here. However, once I'm back to the grind I can't say for sure how much I'll come here (if at all).
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    One other thing: I put straight in quotes before for a reason. While I'm sure if you go through each and every one of my posts 'with a fine tooth comb' (which I know some of you reading do or have done to others if not me) you will see discrepancies in regards to my 'sexuality'. I love women, they're what I think about 99.9 percent of the time I J/O and about 95 percent of the time otherwise. But who knows what the world has in store, ya know? When I get a PM that's too direct I ignore it. I'm never creeped out by anyone though. It says 1% gay right under my name, never hurts for them to try I guess, you know?

    OK, I think I've said enough for now. Probably should've just made a new topic out of this or something. But then I'd just turn into that which I can't stand most about this site: a user who really thinks everyone else is there just for them. Which I assure everyone I'm not.

    *AA steps off his soapbox*
     
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