If you are gay and partnered do you wear a wedding ring? At what point in the relationship did you decide to wear one? If so what finger and hand do you wear it on and what kind of ring do you wear? Does your partner wear the same style ring? Was there some type of commitment ceremony? There is no set custom here and I realize it is a personal choice and it varies among couples but I'm curious what your take on the importance of this is, as a band is a very powerful symbol of commitment and fidelity and seems like an important aspect of being married. If you don't wear one why have you chosen not to? I wonder if most straight married men these days wear a wedding ring as many I know do not.