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    schwulboy1989 Active Member

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    There's a really cute guy in one of my classes but I can't figure out if he's gay or not...

    how can i find out without being too brash?
     
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    have you facebooked him?
     
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    i tried, but he doesn't have one (or his privacy settings are on)
     
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    ask him for afterschool help where you could maybe see if he's interested in you.

    maybe go out for a drink so you guys can loosen up and talk?
     
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    i was thinking about asking him to coffee so i could see his artwork (we're both art majors) and going from there...
     
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    OH the chase!!!!!! It can be the most fun of all!!!!!!
     
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    good luck. hope you check out his "art" soon
     
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    Why are you reluctant to ask him ?
     
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    Well asking out of nowhere could be considered rude... Why not just have a talk and get into a subject where you'll mention that you are gay, then it's likely to get him to respond or if not then it wouldn't be that off place to ask "How about you?"

    But those are just weird ideas of mine... no guarantee !
     
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    Just take him out to coffee, get the conversation turned to personal lives and let it slip in that you're gay. If he's gay, he'll most likely let you know after that. Or could even ask if he has a girlfriend/boyfriend and judge from his response.
     
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    I think the coffee idea is good, then get the conversation personal, and try and slip in the "have you got a girlfriend?" question. If he's gay and out he'll probably tell you, if he's gay and closeted or bi and closeted he'll probably dodge the question.
     
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