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I just wanted to write down my thoughts about gaydar. In my opinion their is such thing as Gaydar, now I don't know if it's just being observant of signals, or sensing certain "vibes" people give off, or if it's some kind of instinct but I can usually tell if someone is gay usually within a few minutes of meeting them. A lot of straight people I find have no real gaydar. They rely on stereotypes and use them to judge if someone is gay or not. Gay men often put out little hints or signals that they can often pick up on. Bisexuals on the other hand, (this coming from a lively discussion with 3 bi's s have talked about it and we can not only pick up on these gay singnals but seem to be able to also sense straight people who are curious or have a bit of a gay side to them, albeit not that obvious. I myself have fooled around with a few straight guys who i'm sure no one would think twice about their heterosexuality. Some of my friends have confided me in to fooling around with football players and other jocks. But some of my gay friends have some pretty bad "gaydar" when it comes to straight people whom they think would fool around. I wish they would actually do a real scientific study on this to prove if some people had Gaydar, but it would be impossible to prove I guess. Just to many factors, and I mean let's face it even defining Gay, straight or bi could be a problem, because it does not mean the same thing for everyone.
I don't know why it is, but it just seems to me that bisexuals are just better on picking up on these "vibes", maybe being attracted to both sexes give us a unique perspective. Or maybe it's just that fooling around with a bisexual seems less threatening to their sexuality than fooling around with a actual gay person. Anyways thats just my opinion on the subject, whats yours? I'm always curious to hear other people's views on this.
This is from my new blog I have started, fell free to check out and get a candid look at the life of being Bisexual, the ups, the downs and my god the complications that arise when one likes both men and women
I just wanted to write down my thoughts about gaydar. In my opinion their is such thing as Gaydar, now I don't know if it's just being observant of signals, or sensing certain "vibes" people give off, or if it's some kind of instinct but I can usually tell if someone is gay usually within a few minutes of meeting them. A lot of straight people I find have no real gaydar. They rely on stereotypes and use them to judge if someone is gay or not. Gay men often put out little hints or signals that they can often pick up on. Bisexuals on the other hand, (this coming from a lively discussion with 3 bi's s have talked about it and we can not only pick up on these gay singnals but seem to be able to also sense straight people who are curious or have a bit of a gay side to them, albeit not that obvious. I myself have fooled around with a few straight guys who i'm sure no one would think twice about their heterosexuality. Some of my friends have confided me in to fooling around with football players and other jocks. But some of my gay friends have some pretty bad "gaydar" when it comes to straight people whom they think would fool around. I wish they would actually do a real scientific study on this to prove if some people had Gaydar, but it would be impossible to prove I guess. Just to many factors, and I mean let's face it even defining Gay, straight or bi could be a problem, because it does not mean the same thing for everyone.
I don't know why it is, but it just seems to me that bisexuals are just better on picking up on these "vibes", maybe being attracted to both sexes give us a unique perspective. Or maybe it's just that fooling around with a bisexual seems less threatening to their sexuality than fooling around with a actual gay person. Anyways thats just my opinion on the subject, whats yours? I'm always curious to hear other people's views on this.
This is from my new blog I have started, fell free to check out and get a candid look at the life of being Bisexual, the ups, the downs and my god the complications that arise when one likes both men and women