The damage I saw in guys I worked with when I was younger who did time in Vietnam was life changing. My first boss, the AAC Colonel, shared his experiences with me without varnish, relating that war is something you don't do unless you've exhausted every option. For you all, it is nothing more than a job and a profit center.
Back during Vietnam they used to show military engagements on TV weeks delayed because the film was all flown back. Automatic weapons fire shot from Hueys, guys on stretchers being hauled into the copters under weapons fire cover. Body count numbers proving that we were "winning."
I grew older seeing that shit on TV and heaved a sigh of relief when I saw that last helicopter flee from the embassy roof at age 13. Even communist socialist liberals like General McArthur knew about the stupidity of getting involved in a land war in Asia.
I can understand how someone would want to find strength by finding something of value in the otherwise unjustifiable after going through that hell, and whatever gets those folks through the night is fine by me for them. But given the scale of the carnage, civilian control over the military is a feature not a bug.
Since the 1980s, this entitled white christian conservative demographic prevalent within the military that sees the military as their cultural bastion and essentially threatens civilian society into funding it on its terms in alliance with gargantuan businesses which use massive sums of taxpayer funds to produce products which add no value to the economy.
This militaristic hostility to civilians is demonstrated at home and abroad. Most critically, the US exceptionalist doctrine abroad and the use of the military to secure economic goals is a significant contributing factor to creating the base conditions where civilian populations are willing to give cover to those who would use asymmetrical warfare techniques against our own civilian populations. So civilians get soaked coming and going, but the military still gets paid. Nice work if you can get it and can put aside your compassion and humanity for yer day job.
It is not like the government ever authorized service members to sexually abuse prisoners during "interrogation," so I would not be so hasty to say what is and is not a lawful order if the law reads that way. I mean seriously, given the propensity of right wing christian republican electeds to be on whatever their equivalent of the down low is, I wouldn't put it past them to institutionalize the practice.
All you would able to do at that point would be to man up and take it.
No, it is not a lawful order even IF Congress passed it because it is a violation of the Constitution.
And from your comments you are are incredible ignorant when it comes to Vietnam.
FACTS:
The US won over 90% of all engagements in Vietnam.
The fall of Saigon happened 2 YEARS AFTER US forces left Vietnam. North Vietnam broke the peace agreement we signed 27JAN1973.
3/4ths of the US Army in Vietnam were volunteers, compared to only 1/3rd in WW2. And only 38% of those killed were Draftees. 70% of WW2 dead were draftees.
Drug use was not rampant during Vietnam. Complete fabrication. Those small few who did use drugs were in relatively safe bases as support personnel.
On top of that 91% of Vietnam veterans are glad they served and 74% would serve again knowing the outcome.