amiegrrl
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<...> For example, I would go into a bar, a cute guy would be standing there, so I gather my pride, and pleasantly walk over to them, and say "Hi"
Immediate response without eye-contact "No".
Me - "Excuse me?"
Him - "Forget it...No.. Shoo"
It seems like here(MI), there are many that think If your not buff and beautiful, your chopped liver. <...>
That's just mean When I was into the bar scene more, it always pissed me off when girls in our group would rudely "dismiss" men out of hand instead of being polite about it.
I work with the only two gay men I know. One tries to be "pretty" and makes comments to that effect all the time. He's forever making comments about the clothes we wear and how we do our hair - either voicing his approval or criticism. Just the women. He does impressions of 'Jack' from Will and Grace, and has a little group of girls that follow him around. I'm guessing it's his way of trying to be the 'cute, bitchy' type to assert his superiority - like the 'popular' girls in high school did.
The other gay man I work with is more 'manly' ... or at least much less prissy. He shaves his head, likes sports, etc. He's a little easier to get along with (or at least to talk to), but he's always putting people down too. He tries to be funny about it, calling the girls at work 'slut' when they walk by ... tossing out the occasional and ever-hilarous 'Your-Mom joke'. It's really just not funny. These are the only two men I've known (somewhat) personally that are gay, and it's really given me a colored view of gay people in general. It's kind of a turn-off, even though I know it's just their way of trying to fit in and be accepted.
Maybe it is a Michigan thing... :shrug: