Alright so here is my issue. I am a 19 year old student in college. I am also gay (more or less). The thing is I have never done anything in the past with any one. Not even kissing (yeah.... i know but its by choice :tongue. The thing is I really want to be in a relationship to do these type of things. Just because it's who I am. I've never really been into the whole random hook-up thing. But the problem is I have such a hard time finding that "guy". I am not really into effeminate guys, actually I am extremely attracted to masculine guys. But the guys I am usually attracted to are straight... haha yeah nothing new I'm sure. Except lately my "urges" have been at such a high, that I want to jump every guy that gives me that "interested" vibe. Well long story short.. How do I find a man? lol.