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  1. sizequeen64

    sizequeen64 New Member

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    I have met people that i am attracted to. I have even met people i wanted to have sex with. But I have yet to meet anyone i feel comfortable enough to fall asleep around. Much less someone i would spend the whole night with. Opinions?
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    B_Think_Kink New Member

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    Opinions on what?
     
  3. fortiesfun

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    And your point is???? :confused:
     
  4. ItsSubjective

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    Do you mean you don't feel comfortable enough to sleep around people you have just recently met or does this extend to friends you have known for long periods of time? What exactly is your fear or discomfort based upon? What are you worried might happen?
     
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    I get the feeling that you are talking about spending the entire night, i.e. sleeping (as in shut eye) with the person you had just finished making love with.

    I think that possibly it comes from a place of feeling a tad insecure or not being able to trust the person enough for you to make yourself completely vulnerable with him/her. When one actually stops and thinks of it, though we take falling asleep for granted, it really does entail a great deal of trust. When I sleep next to my wife at night, I am in a way doing so trusting her enough to not whallop me over the head with a rolling pin or even worse. I hope that this makes sense to you.
     
  6. D_Coyne Toss

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    Have you ever fallen in love yet?

    Sleeping with somebody implies trust, communion, condivision, briefly love (or deep friendship).
     
  7. TheRob

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    I dont even nkow what your asking
     
  8. lafever

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    If i wouldn`t marry them, i wouldn`t spend the night.:cool:



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