My GF just prior to meeting my current wife just loved anal sex and she could orgasm easily from it. At first, I liked the kink of it, but soon enough I grew tired of it, as I always wore a condom and we had to lube up. (Not to mention all the washing and changing of sheets.) When I licked her, I had to have a finger up her ass or she couldn't orgasm. When she rode me in reverse cowgirl, my finger had to be in her asshole. Mind you, she had a lovely rear, as befit a former model.
Yes, yes, I know that many men would die for such a woman.
I became exasperated, however, of it all. For example, we were once in the shower and we got frisky and I was soon fucking her pussy. She wanted me to fuck her in her ass, which was a problem, as I always used a condom when fucking her in that hole (she wanted bareback, but I refused). The condoms were far away in the bedroom and we were soaking wet. I relented and she covered my cock in some shampoo and we went at it. Afterwards, my cock burned from harsh shampoo, as did her asshole.That was it for me, no more anal. That episode was over twenty years ago and I am still shying away from a repeat. I once told this to a good friend and he said, "Be careful not to let opportunities go by, as you will soon get to he point were your cock won't be hard enough for that rear-door option."