Genital snuggling

[B_subgirrl]

Sounds like you two are exactly where my wife and I are at.

I think you're a few thousand hours ahead :tongue:.

Now, if I can figure out how to do this permanently, I'd have found paradise.

No paradise for me. Is too much.

 

[Intrigue]

I def got to point my wife to this post. I want to try some of this. We grind, or snuggle alot but I'm never sure if I'm hitting the backstop. Probably not, as I'm of normal length just over 6, but when I'm deep in her and grind I do notice the diff in her movements and orgasms. I guess we need to start paying for attention? The best time we ever had was in the position of rawdog avatar, or very similar, and rocking back and forth and breathing in tune together. Both of us cum really hard from that.

 

[RawDog]

I think you're a few thousand hours ahead :tongue:.

Only the research part. It's only been since this thread's started (4/29) that we've gotten into the greater than 45 minutes of my cock inside her length of time.

No paradise for me. Is too much.

We've gone back and forth on this, and I do understand your point, but too much of a good thing is, well, great for me. <--- I have a super addictive personality

I def got to point my wife to this post. I want to try some of this. We grind, or snuggle alot but I'm never sure if I'm hitting the backstop.

The feeling's unmistakeable when you grind it deep. The backstop could still be stroked, but once you stretch it to its full depth, and there is no give, my shaft and base feels the weight. When she swirls her hips clockwise, I can feel my frenulum rubbing deep and hot, I can feel my cockhead pressed down on her smooth soft cul de sac. Yep, paradise.

Probably not, as I'm of normal length just over 6, but when I'm deep in her and grind I do notice the diff in her movements and orgasms. I guess we need to start paying for attention?

Part of why this is so compelling is that the sensations are so subtle, we have to pay attention.

The best time we ever had was in the position of rawdog avatar, or very similar, and rocking back and forth and breathing in tune together. Both of us cum really hard from that.

I changed my avatar to more clearly display our favorite side-saddle position, but my old avatar was the yab yum position:

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l2h7vif67h1qbitbyo1_500.jpg

It was another fave, but after 45 minutes her hips would hurt. The new side-saddle position is pretty sore resistant.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Only the research part. It's only been since this thread's started (4/29) that we've gotten into the greater than 45 minutes of my cock inside her length of time.

There are 29 months now?

Sorry, couldn't resist :tongue:.

We've gone back and forth on this, and I do understand your point, but too much of a good thing is, well, great for me. <--- I have a super addictive personality

As do I. I'm just reluctant to let him break down the walls when he's not going to be around to support the resulting mess.

Part of why this is so compelling is that the sensations are so subtle, we have to pay attention.

I totally agree on that one. Recently I had to tell him to stop twitching his cock. He'd pushed me close enough to the edge that it was too much.

The too much feeling is really quite new to me. I don't really understand it. How can something that feels good also be something that I need him to stop doing?

I changed my avatar to more clearly display our favorite side-saddle position, but my old avatar was the yab yum position:

I didn't recognise you!

I def got to point my wife to this post. I want to try some of this. We grind, or snuggle alot but I'm never sure if I'm hitting the backstop. Probably not, as I'm of normal length just over 6, but when I'm deep in her and grind I do notice the diff in her movements and orgasms.

If she behaves differently when you're deep and grinding, you may well be hitting it. Have you asked her if you are?

 

[Intrigue]

No I haven't. I need to direct her to this thread and start some "experimenting":naughty:

 

[B_subgirrl]

No I haven't. I need to direct her to this thread and start some "experimenting":naughty:

Indeed you do!! Connecting with the deep spot or not, the intensity of this is mind blowing.

 

[RawDog]

Update on our side saddle/thigh master position (I really hate the name thighmaster): We added the wedge!!

First off, a bit more explanation is required about the position. From Cosmo:

Thigh Master Sex Position - Cosmopolitan

and from another site:

Name That Position: A Sex Position Dictionary

And lastly:

Sex Position Guide: The Thigh Master | A Big Butt and a Smile

Basically, while the man is on a couch lying on his back the woman will straddle him facing his side almost as if she were sitting on his lap. Place one leg by his hip and one leg between his legs so she is actually straddling his leg. Now, and this is what makes the biggest difference from the links I've provided, the woman leans back so she's resting back on the couch.

I know I posted the following on the previous page, but it bares repeating. The movement is not up and down, but a much slower swirling round and round motion than this:

http://ist1-4.filesor.com/pimpandhost.com/4/8/9/9/48994/B/U/H/V/BUHV/circle grinding.gif

The biggest issue with this is that although, I'm deep inside her, I can feel I can get deeper if my body is 45 degrees from being flat on my back. Half on my side half flat on my back - towards the back of the couch. Enter the wedge: If I place the liberator wedge:

Liberator Wedge

... on my back such that I'm tilted more towards the back of the couch, I sort of pin her back. From there I'm deep. Extereeeeemely deep. In fact the deepest I've ever been.

Thought I'd share our latest discovery.

 

[B_subgirrl]

The biggest issue with this is that although, I'm deep inside her, I can feel I can get deeper if my body is 45 degrees from being flat on my back. Half on my side half flat on my back - towards the back of the couch. Enter the wedge: If I place the liberator wedge:

Liberator Wedge

... on my back such that I'm tilted more towards the back of the couch, I sort of pin her back. From there I'm deep. Extereeeeemely deep. In fact the deepest I've ever been.

Thought I'd share our latest discovery.

Now you're being lazy :tongue:. You're supposed to use your legs to get that extra angle :biggrin1:.

 

[Something_Else]

Nice thread here!

It reminded me of me and my XGF when we were sleeping together one lazy summer's afternoon. It was really warm and she, being a virgin, was still learning her body; and I (even then) took a long time to cum (typically 2+ hours).

So instead of us, trying to fuck like rabbits, we did like you guys did...which was just be in each other's embrace while me inside of her.

It was a very bonding & connecting experience. Really intimate and, simultaneously, sublime. We slept together while I was fully erect within her. Total time was around 3-4 hours like that. And I was still hard within her, but I had a condom; because, I pre-cum a LOT! And didn't want to chance having an accidental pregnancy.

But this topic definitely reminded me of that time and moment. It's still a cherished memory because it was just so sensual even though it was still sex. I would definitely suggest anyone & everyone to try it out; especially, if you love cuddling.

 

[RawDog]

Now you're being lazy :tongue:. You're supposed to use your legs to get that extra angle :biggrin1:.

It pays to be lazy. :biggrin1:

In all honesty, the rate at which she can fire off her orgasms when we're using the wedge has gone up so dramatically it's incredible. Without the wedge, only using my legs I could probably do that for ten minutes max. The wedge pops me up there and pins her back with very little effort giving us more of a chance to concentrate on the pleasure.

I know you were giving me a hard time, but I like giving you a hard time too. :smile:

Nice thread here!

Thanks!

It was a very bonding & connecting experience. Really intimate and, simultaneously, sublime. We slept together while I was fully erect within her. Total time was around 3-4 hours like that.

That's how we feel about it too. We've incorporated very very small motion to keep the stimulation going, but the intensity mixed with the low stress rubbing is just incredible. The 3-4 hours isn't bullshit, I can attest to that.

Yesterday MrsR and I did it three times at an average of two hours each. The last one was after we got home. We set up on the couch, dead tired, she popped me inside her about midnight and we drifted in and out of consciousness. When we're totally still, and this is going to sound strange, I can't really tell how rigid I am sometimes. If one of us does a a kegel or if she moves a bit I can tell. Anyway, last night whenever either one of us would move it was apparent my hard on was more like morning wood. Unrelenting and still as a metal rod.

The movements caused her to wake up, cum, then pass out again. It was about 2am when we decided to get up from the couch and go to bed. I swear the whole thing felt more like 10 minutes than two hours. Fucking heaven it was.

And I was still hard within her, but I had a condom; because, I pre-cum a LOT! And didn't want to chance having an accidental pregnancy.

Now I'm really impressed!! With a condom?? Holy shit. Hat's off, man.

But this topic definitely reminded me of that time and moment. It's still a cherished memory because it was just so sensual even though it was still sex. I would definitely suggest anyone & everyone to try it out; especially, if you love cuddling.

The thing is, we're not even calling this sex anymore. It's something else altogether. It's like 2 souls fusing for the duration we're together like this.

 

[Something_Else]

Anyway, last night whenever either one of us would move it was apparent my hard on was more like morning wood. Unrelenting and still as a metal rod.

The movements caused her to wake up, cum, then pass out again. It was about 2am when we decided to get up from the couch and go to bed. I swear the whole thing felt more like 10 minutes than two hours. Fucking heaven it was.

I would concur with everything mentioned above, exponentially!!! It is one of those things that if you ever experience once; everything after it pales in comparison. So don't take it for granted that you can share this with someone you are deeply connected with! Unfortunately, not everyone has that kind of endurance & desire to be connected for that long, nor in that fashion.

Now I'm really impressed!! With a condom?? Holy shit. Hat's off, man.

Well I have to return the comp back to you! I take FOREVER to cum with a condom - sometimes I don't at all
However, when I am not using condoms; I cum in a more reasonable time frame - as it's more sensitive and erotic. That's why I give you props for the stamina WITHOUT a rubber?! I definitely would have burst just from the movements.

The thing is, we're not even calling this sex anymore. It's something else altogether. It's like 2 souls fusing for the duration we're together like this.

Again, in total agreement here!!! It doesn't feel like sex, it feels more spiritual - which might strike many odd. But as you noted, it feels like an uniting of the souls in ways that is indelible because you simultaneously feel totally vulnerable in that state, yet totally secure being in the arms of someone that truly gets you...and simply just wants to be in you...and, seemingly, never let you go.

The word "Sex" seems to fall short describing something that intense, that pure, that palpable. One of those things you have to experience to understand. Congrats, again, in having someone to continue those experiences. My memories of that moment is still powerful that I think of that moment even years later!

 

[RawDog]

It is one of those things that if you ever experience once; everything after it pales in comparison. So don't take it for granted that you can share this with someone you are deeply connected with!

The responses from a few friends I've told about this IRL have been mixed, so I know this is definitely an acquired taste. Furthermore, and this goes back to a size/fit issue, I do believe if we were incompatible size-wise, the effects would be diminished.

Unfortunately, not everyone has that kind of endurance & desire to be connected for that long, nor in that fashion.

Better living through chemistry is another personal motto. I'd love to take the credit for my stamina, but I have modern (and ancient) science to thank.

Again, in total agreement here!!! It doesn't feel like sex, it feels more spiritual - which might strike many odd. But as you noted, it feels like an uniting of the souls in ways that is indelible because you simultaneously feel totally vulnerable in that state, yet totally secure being in the arms of someone that truly gets you...and simply just wants to be in you...and, seemingly, never let you go.

The word "Sex" seems to fall short describing something that intense, that pure, that palpable. One of those things you have to experience to understand. Congrats, again, in having someone to continue those experiences.

Your description is absolutely brilliant! Very accurate and eloquent.

My memories of that moment is still powerful that I think of that moment even years later!

Have you tried experimenting with anyone else after?

 

[Intrigue]

Could you explain, if that isn't too private, what you meant by modern and ancient science are responsible for your stamina? I'm sure you mean supplements of some kind and or exercises but im curious as to which or what you do or use. (Hope that wasn't too confusing. ^_^)

 

[RawDog]

Could you explain, if that isn't too private, what you meant by modern and ancient science are responsible for your stamina? I'm sure you mean supplements of some kind and or exercises but im curious as to which or what you do or use. (Hope that wasn't too confusing. ^_^)

Not confusing at all.

I smoke pot and take cialis on a recreational basis.

Pot = ancient

Cialis = modern

It's taken a lot of research to get the right combination of stuff. I tried viagra, levitra, yohimbe, tribulis terrestris, pygeum, horny goat weed, maca, acid (not recently), etc.

In fact within the marijuana variety alone I had to do a lot of experimentation. Some pot makes me limp and I could never find out which one. I finally found one that just relaxes me and makes me erect with almost no physical stimulation.

Put it this way, the cialis gets me rock hard when I want, the pot makes me want to be rock hard without any thought. <-- How's that for vague? :biggrin1:

Last night my wife and I were going at it for 2 hours and 45 minutes. We stopped a total of about 5 to 10 minutes total for pee, stretching, bong hit and refreshment breaks.

 

[Intrigue]

Not confusing at all.

I smoke pot and take cialis on a recreational basis.

Pot = ancient

Cialis = modern

It's taken a lot of research to get the right combination of stuff. I tried viagra, levitra, yohimbe, tribulis terrestris, pygeum, horny goat weed, maca, acid (not recently), etc.

In fact within the marijuana variety alone I had to do a lot of experimentation. Some pot makes me limp and I could never find out which one. I finally found one that just relaxes me and makes me erect with almost no physical stimulation.

Put it this way, the cialis gets me rock hard when I want, the pot makes me want to be rock hard without any thought. <-- How's that for vague? :biggrin1:

Last night my wife and I were going at it for 2 hours and 45 minutes. We stopped a total of about 5 to 10 minutes total for pee, stretching, bong hit and refreshment breaks.

That makes sense. I use MJ recreationally while my wife uses for medical/recreational purposes. And I have noticed a very big difference in what diff strains do. But until we move to a state that supports medical MJ then its kind of hit and miss with the strain and quality. As far as Cialis, im a young guy and im kinda scared of taking any drug that makes me hard for too long. What I've noticed with me and the mrs is that even when on vacation and having tons of sex the individual sessions dont last long because she doesn't necessarily like prolonged intercourse. It irritates her, atleast that's what I've garnered from talking to her. If we try a tantric position we can stay longer but anything vigorous is short lived due to her sensitivity. It will hurt her a great deal. There is definitely something to be said for the slow and long though. Very, spiritual is the word i would use. Although yesterday we had a very intense afternooner that didnt last very long at all but satisfied us both for hours. I mean i was getting smiles and winks and butt pinches for the next couple hours and as far as how i felt i felt like i had a weight lifted off of me. I dont know why but that session i felt closer, more intimate, more urgent than others. She sensed it, responded accordingly (meaning i could see or tell how much more aroused she was. Her wetness, her urgent movements, her uncontrolled gasps) and so did I. It was just intense and the only thing i can think of is that we connected more than usual. Maybe it was the length of time between sex? A few days. Length of time between masturbation? Several days. The way in which i held her? Very close, very firm grip, very urgent movements. All of that made it, for me and im pretty sure for her as well, ab extremely fulfilling and sensual nooner. Sex for us is always great, but that one will stick out in my head.


P.s. Maybe it was the lingerie? It seriously turned me on. It was some lacy white fluffy deal with sexy undies that had a little white tail poof. Sexy stuff. :naughty:

 

[B_subgirrl]

It pays to be lazy. :biggrin1:

In all honesty, the rate at which she can fire off her orgasms when we're using the wedge has gone up so dramatically it's incredible.

Which makes it well worth using :biggrin1:.

Without the wedge, only using my legs I could probably do that for ten minutes max. The wedge pops me up there and pins her back with very little effort giving us more of a chance to concentrate on the pleasure.

Ooh, the pinning I like. Pinning is a key part of the whole experience for me. The mindfuck associated with being pinned back is obviously gonna work for me, but the physical sensations are also amplified in the pinned back position - soooo good.

I know you were giving me a hard time, but I like giving you a hard time too. :smile:

You do hard well :tongue::biggrin1:.

But as you noted, it feels like an uniting of the souls in ways that is indelible because you simultaneously feel totally vulnerable in that state, yet totally secure being in the arms of someone that truly gets you...and simply just wants to be in you...and, seemingly, never let you go.

This is my problem with it. Too much closeness. The vulnerable part is particularly problematic. I don't like it.

 

[Something_Else]

The responses from a few friends I've told about this IRL have been mixed, so I know this is definitely an acquired taste. Furthermore, and this goes back to a size/fit issue, I do believe if we were incompatible size-wise, the effects would be diminished.

I'm only learning & discovering that through this thread?! Guess I was projecting my enjoyment as one that is universal for all. Have to remember what works for one, doesn't for all.

Your description is absolutely brilliant! Very accurate and eloquent.

Thanks RawDog! I guess it's something that I'm passionate about & still triggers fond memories years later.

Have you tried experimenting with anyone else after?

I've really wanted to! But that experience was with my XGF - the only woman I thought of marrying. Contrast that with my experiences with men, my XBF, someone that I never quite felt a trust level for.

My XBF was entirely different sexually than anyone I was used to. Everything was more aggressive, sportive, more intense even verbal. I have learnt some things though those experiences, that I'm definitely MORE sensual than sexual. And he was the converse...and neither being right or wrong; or better or worse than the other.

Since then, I've kind of held off from expecting that experience with guys. Perhaps, if I come across another lady who is okay with my mixed sexual history, I'll share this desire to be entirely connected with her.

This is my problem with it. Too much closeness. The vulnerable part is particularly problematic. I don't like it.

Your post made me review my thought process, and I thank you for that subgirrl, as I had originally presumed everyone would enjoy it. But like everything else in the world, there is an entire spectrum of experiences.

It also depends on whom you're sharing this moment with! Because the feelings and emotions are more intense, having someone that you're able to trust entirely like that is essential!

And having someone that you trust, love, adore, and feel entirely free to be vulnerable with...how often does that occur in anybody's life? I'm thinking not too often.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Your post made me review my thought process, and I thank you for that subgirrl, as I had originally presumed everyone would enjoy it. But like everything else in the world, there is an entire spectrum of experiences.

It also depends on whom you're sharing this moment with! Because the feelings and emotions are more intense, having someone that you're able to trust entirely like that is essential!

And having someone that you trust, love, adore, and feel entirely free to be vulnerable with...how often does that occur in anybody's life? I'm thinking not too often.

The thing is, I do enjoy it, but completely hate it at the same time. The good feelings while it's happening are overwhelming, but I truly hate being that vulnerable.

My relationship with my FB is such that I have complete trust in him, and don't mind at all being that vulnerable while I'm in the moment, but I also know that he won't be around to pick up the pieces that are left once he's torn my walls down. Vulnerable is not good.

 

[Intrigue]

The thing is, I do enjoy it, but completely hate it at the same time. The good feelings while it's happening are overwhelming, but I truly hate being that vulnerable.

My relationship with my FB is such that I have complete trust in him, and don't mind at all being that vulnerable while I'm in the moment, but I also know that he won't be around to pick up the pieces that are left once he's torn my walls down. Vulnerable is not good.

Forgive my ignorance but doesn't that make you want to find someone who WILL pick up the pieces? Vulnerable is scary as fuck. I only recently tried being vulnerable again. The only one I could trust to "pick up the pieces" was and is her.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Forgive my ignorance but doesn't that make you want to find someone who WILL pick up the pieces? Vulnerable is scary as fuck. I only recently tried being vulnerable again. The only one I could trust to "pick up the pieces" was and is her.

Nah, I'm happy enough with things as they are. If a good pieces-picker-upper-er comes along at some point, that will be good too, but it's not something I'm actively hoping for. I'm just kind of taking things as they come, although I'm not terribly comfortable with him ripping walls down in the meantime.