No matter the spin provided here, one cannot definitively say he did anything seriously wrong, and nobody can honestly (perhaps that's why it's being done here) can say this event makes him a monster and/or worthy of conviction after the fact in the TM case. Sorry Wuzzy.
Fuzzy believes what she said in the phone call. Unfortunately, this incident will be portrayed as a hysterical, vindictive woman who called the cops and lied about an alleged assault. But, like Fuzzy said, the table didn't smash itself; There is physical evidence that can't be ignored.
The state likely dropped the charges because they lost their only good witness. Otherwise, Zimmerman would be facing a felony conviction. He's damned lucky.