Getting a hard on as you age

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Curious men 50 and above… Does it take longer to get an full hard erection? Do you need a bit more stimulation than a video or pic or thought? You still can an erection but it take a bit longer.
Nope.
But it seems to have learned when 'the promise' is false & will more easily lose interest when the promise is a lie.
 

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Have always been a firm believer in the saying 'use it or lose it'.
I'm fortunate I guess that I've always had a high sex drive. Early sixties now and very few days go by where I don't get aroused. I still wake up to spontaneous boners most mornings, and they're as hard as they were in my twenties. And no I'm not on any testosterone boosters, I just love sex and keep doing it.
 

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Sex drive is as high as when I was a teen, want it every day and more. At 59 I am finding I need constant stimulation to keep my boner.Put your lips on it and it's hard, and no issues staying that way as long as you are working your magic, but take a break, and I am going to lose it, not all of it, just not ROCK hard the way I was. No clue why it's happening? I am wondering if I have not worn the damn thing out? LMAO
 

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Age doesn't treat male penii very well.
Best thing I can recommend is regular exercise, and watching your weight. I went on a ketogenic diet, lost #40, by blood work improved dramatically, and my urge to get an erection improved.
Thank you for your words.

I don’t have an issue in this department but I was curious as I was reading an article on the internet, which lead to other articles. The medical profession must be wrong. Because it seems to think that after a certain age mens erections go south and a lot of people on sites like this and other sites seem to contradict what these articles say about what happens after a certain age….
 

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Curious men 50 and above… Does it take longer to get an full hard erection? Do you need a bit more stimulation than a video or pic or thought? You still can an erection but it take a bit longer.
Hard as ever, just don’t have a hole to poke it in. Im 69 1BE9A41C-D292-44E1-A73D-C07F12F71878.jpeg
 

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Thank you for your words.

I don’t have an issue in this department but I was curious as I was reading an article on the internet, which lead to other articles. The medical profession must be wrong. Because it seems to think that after a certain age mens erections go south and a lot of people on sites like this and other sites seem to contradict what these articles say about what happens after a certain age….
You got anecdotal responses from a few people. There's been research done by medical professionals which involved hundreds, if not thousands of respondents. I'd believe the science over a few personal cases any day.

That said, every man is different and there are many mitigating factors, besides age.
  • General health
  • Medications
  • Weight
  • Fitness level
  • etc.
So, yes, it can take longer to achieve an erection as you age, or not.
Yes, you may need more stimulation sometimes, all of the time, or none of the time.
 
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There is this feeling like, OMG my dick with just pack its things and leave once i hit, X years old. But keep in mind, LOOK at the over all health of who is reporting great sex in their later years. They probably are not obese, probably exercise, probably look a bit younger then they are. SO the lessen, take care yourself and your cock, and it will take care of you!

My hope for myself is not a crash landing (wake up cock doesn't work), My hope is to get elderly, lose interest in sex gradually, lose interest in sex BEFORE my cock don't work LOL. So by then, I will not not miss what I care not for!

P.S. used to not eat well and have extra weight, then, got fit, lost weight. Now its all better then when i was 20.

I'm young, I'm Hung, I'm 40!

Anyone agree?
 

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At 60 I almost never get hard anymore just by thinking about it. Not having inconvenient erections is kind of a relief. As a grower it's disappointing not to be able to sport a semi at nude beaches. Surfing lpsg does the trick hands free. I still get rock hard but I need constant stroking to maintain a hard erection.
 

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At 60 I almost never get hard anymore just by thinking about it. Not having inconvenient erections is kind of a relief. As a grower it's disappointing not to be able to sport a semi at nude beaches. Surfing lpsg does the trick hands free. I still get rock hard but I need constant stroking to maintain a hard erection.
Damn I'm that way and I'm in my early 30s yeesh
 

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Damn I'm that way and I'm in my early 30s yeesh
My doc says aerobic exercise is keeping my dick working. After a long bike ride I'm horny AF that night or next day.
 

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I really wouldn't say it takes me longer to get an erection as so much as sustaining it. Seeing a photo that appeals to me, my wife being naked or teasing me and especially manual stimulation will almost always get me fully erect instantly. However, some portions of the time it might not remain that way and lapse into a semi-erect to almost totally lost state that may or may not come back to full rigidity.

While aging no doubt plays a part, a lot of the time there are other factors at play, usually my energy vs. fatigue levels. I have noticed most of the times it happens is when I attempt to have sex too late in the night not realizing how tired my body or mental state is. I would also note that while I may not have an issue getting fully hard, the actual hardness level is not the same as in times past. Though strangely, it is only the case during a wakeful erection while aroused, masturbating or having sex, as I still seem to possess a cock that could cut diamonds upon waking up, but unfortunately, I also don't have the actual libido to take advantage of it at that time.
 
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I still get hard very easily. I’m incredibly grateful at 57 that I don’t have any issues at all. Use it or lose it!
 
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