I haven't been long going out on the scene in London, but I decided to after realising that day-to-day I don't meet many gay guys, I decided to go for it. The first time, I hooked up with a big Scottish guy and ended up having a crazy night, but last week, I opted for a more sensible approach. Anyway I was with my 'friend' Antony. He's a guy I know through a friend, recently came out, and we go to bars together, but we're not close. I actually find him annoying as fuck; he does these irritating gymnast moves and is just...an attention whore. Anyway we were in Village and I saw this gorgeous looking guy, a little older than me. I flashed a couple of smiles and after getting a drink, walked over. His name is John, and he works in a bank. He's 30 (I'm 22) and we were chatting for about two hours. He had just come to town so wasn't very drunk but I'd had a couple. He said I was quite confident to come over and chat to him. We were chatting about loads with a bit of flirting (he showed me his 6pac, and he had really big muscled arms) and he teased me a little for being slim (though I showed my stomach off too). I just got this great vibe from him, and we went somewhere quieter for a drink, but he did eventually say that I'm not his type. I was a little crushed, since we were getting on so well, but figured these things are out of your control, and I could always rely on him to be a good buddy. Then he saw my friends and suggested I met back up with them. I was happy with his company, but he said he wanted to mingle with a few more people; I was the first guy he spoke to that night and my friends were looking for me. Anyway, I texted him the next day and never heard from him. We'd talked about meeting again; for a drink, or even to his part of London to do something. I was really confused. Anyone have any thoughts? I wondered if he picked up on my attraction to him and didn't want to lead me on. I haven't sent him a second text, but I'm thinking about it, since it's been a few weeks. Would really appreciate some feedback.