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  1. ballplayerxxx

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    do a lot of people around you know that you have a big dick? if so, how did you become aware that a lot of other people have been talking about the size of your cock? is your reputation limited to your private life (friends and lovers), or is it also public (school-mates, co-workers, neighbors, etc.)? has this reputation had a major effect on your life -- good or bad -- or is it just not that big a deal?
     
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    To answer your question(s) ballplayerxxx
    is a yes for me having a reputation of being fairly well hung...since the age of 10 yrs. old.
    It's not a secret among my family members, friends ( both males & females alike), and my co-workers.
    I've have coped with this reputation pretty much all my life and have gotten use to all the jokes, comments, and name-callings people make about my dick size so it doesn't bother too much any more.
    My step-dad and two older step-brothers use to abuse and punish me in reguards to having large gentials which I guess you could say, somewhat effected my life when I was growing up.
    I often get approached and teased sometimes openly and sometimes behind my back with whispering comments and laughing.
    And then there is the factor I was sexually active by age 11 and a father at age 13.
    There have been many cases that some women won't even deal with me
    when it comes to sex; and then there are some cases that the only thing I get used for is sex because of my dick size...they just basically want to actually see how hung I am for proof.
    I don't try to explain the medical conditions that caused my penis size;and
    I do get embrassed sometimes; and I've had my share of problems and situations.
    But, so has my uncle (on mother's side of the family) that is also well hung
    and has the same medical conditions as I do.
    A lot of times people look at me being slow and dumb with a big dick which
    I don't always understand why other for the fact I don't talk much.
    It aint always the greatest reputation and condition to having a larger than average dick as some people would think ... good or bad!
    There are pros and cons as a lot of guys, that are well hung, will admit.
    We all aint in the pron industry:wink:
    Well, man, guess that's pretty much it.
    Be Safe, be Careful & Enjoy
    Whopper-lee
     
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    I had sex with a hooker once whose regular clients were happened to be my friends, and she told one of my friends about my dick anatomy and size. Everytime I see my friend, he always talk about that hooker story. LMAO. It is kind of embarrassing.
     
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    I recently realized that many friends of mine know I am big. Some saw me naked (swimming pool, sauna, and so on), but others, well, I guess they got to know it.

    E.g., I realized it when they gave me a pair of boxers and a T- shirt (underwear) as a present. One said that very probably the boxers would have been small and tight for me (and they were).

    Excluding some self centred ego boost, no major impact, :)
     
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    Some (not many) of my guy friends have seen my dick. To me, there is an unspoken "guy code" which says you don't talk about that stuff to other people. It's just something to you keep amongst yourselves. We possibly know more about each others bodies than many girls do. Not in any kind of sexual way, just from being around each other in male-only situations.

    Girls on the other hand, like to bring this stuff up more freely in my experience and are quick to make a comment about your member in social situations. I don't like it too much, but I guess as a male I do the same things sometimes when talking about breasts, etc.

    So, to answer your question, yes, some of my friends know. I try not to make a big deal of it though. You'll never hear my buddies let the secret out though. It's always the ladies.
     
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    whopper lee what is the condition and how can i aquire it partially. i am sorry you grew up with harsh times. i guess big dick isint always sunshine and soda. how long is your member?
     
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    I was working on a film out of town and a few crew members were housed in a seaside guest house. Late one night I was getting ready for bed and another crew member came into the bathroom to do the same. We started to mess around a little, just playing really.

    So a few minutes later I leave the bathroom in my boxer briefs with an obvious hard-on. As I stepped into hallway, to return to my room, a female (40ish) crew member came up the stairs. She stared at my crotch for a moment, said good night and hurried to her room.

    On set the next day it was very obvious that she had mentioned our hallway encounter, because, first the women were all giving me a sly smile and by lunch time the a bunch of the guys were too.

    I still work with a few of them and I will always appreciate what Diane did for my rep.

    Too bad she didn't catch the other guy in the hall instead of me, he was massive.
     
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    I didn't know I was large until I began bedding women (call me isolated) and was told that...

    ...though from some exposure to porn I thought I was just average, compared to someone with a ten incher.

    Did it make much difference? No, I'm not arrogant. It was only an issue when I was with someone new. A few women I couldn't fit into.
     
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    I have experienced no major problems, except for the brief period of tauting in the Junior High and High School Locker Room Gym Class Setting. I lived with it and the experience did not scar me.
     
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    The only people who know are my 2 ex's and they had little to no close contact with my circle of friends so they never told anyone. So the answer would be no, none of my friends know. Now if you'll excuse me I have to go and spread some rumors.
     
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    Yes. I have had, and still have "issues". Not so much now as when I was growing up. When I was in middle and high school, I really got teased and it got over the whole school. It came down to the point that no girl would sleep with me because of that reason. Not afraid to say it now, I'm an adult not that it matters now that I live my life as a gay man. Which brings me to the current day issues. Though I thought it was going to really scar me for the rest of my life it didn't. I found that what we have come to call "size queens" loved it. But now that I have settled down with just one person, it's not about the size. But being a gay man, I also tend to be versitile. And with my size, I have not been able to experience that other part of myself in the past almost 7 years. That's where the problem lies. Don't get me wrong. We have tried. But it just doesn't happen...at all. And all my current friends have found out. The good thing is, unlike middle and high school. There is more symphythy than teasing.
     
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    I also should add that I'm not as big as I thought once I started working at a local strip club in D.C. some years ago. Nor am I as big as some I have seen here. But my dimensions are 9x5.5. I consider small after what I have seen working at the clubs on a nightly basis.
     
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    About a month and a half ago I had a rather funny experience where I ran into the friends of a girl I'd had a rather drunken one-night stand with at a party earlier in the year. I had heard a couple of her other friends walking behind me one day mentioning me as "that guy" so I didn't want to have it be an awkward situation where she regretted it and felt bad etc. So I approached her friends and made some sort of half-drunk apology/explanation, and one of her male friends said "I wouldn't worry about it. Actually she's raved about the whole thing. We all have heard way too much about you, if you know what I mean." At that I stared, drunk and stoned and rather at a loss for words and said "Well uhh...I'm glad there was no issue then," and returned to the party.
     
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    someotherguy has more photos up than he has posts...hmm hmm...busy hands....
     
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    pretty much all the above:rolleyes: for me for folk be knowing
    Sometimes it gets embrassing with comments made in my presents...I just deal with it and laugh it off in most cases...fairly use to it.
    Guys on my part time job always have made jokes & comments about me having a large peter...and have kinda spreaded the word about me to some folks I don't even know that well.
    One time a partner of mine, introduced me to some people at a party, said "hey yall...this is the nigg I was telling you about that's seriously got a dick down to his knees and that's even on soft!"

    I was truely embrassed:redface::eek:They all got their laugh in and a few of them even kept takin a glance & peeps at my crouch.:biggrin1:
    But..it all good anyway I guess.:wink:
     
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