You are aware this is only proving it to be more and more psychological and less and less physically based, right? I'll assume you're not doing it on purpose, but anatomically things don't open easier like that. It's a mental thing.
Getting a woman to cum from anal?
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You are aware this is only proving it to be more and more psychological and less and less physically based, right? I'll assume you're not doing it on purpose, but anatomically things don't open easier like that. It's a mental thing.
it's about feeling relaxed.
which is part physical, part mental.
now unless every other woman on the planet has had a lobotomy, i'm safe in saying that their relaxation will be part physical, part mental too.
squatting means taking the weight on my legs and arms, so my thighs are tense.
when my thighs are tense other parts of my body are harder to relax.
if i'm in a position where i can relax most or all of my muscles then my pelvic floor automatically relaxes.
if he's stroking my back then i'm incredibly relaxed.
and that makes it less likely to hurt.
yes, i'm in a more vulnerable and exposed position with my arse in the air, but if that really mattered i wouldn't be letting him fuck me up the arse.
Actually relaxation is extremely mental, especially in certain people. It's rarely the positioning of the body ( in any respect ) and more the comfort within the mind. The only time relaxation is actually physical is when the muscle themselves at at their most relaxed, I.E. laying down, but you can be extremely tense and lay down and you can be extremely relaxed and running, so it's a lot more mental than physical, ya digg?
Well, I would agree with you, but if that were the case your understanding of anatomy would put you in the most uncomfortable position. Doggystyle sex itself is the most strenuous of common positions today, the reason women do it is because things feel tighter and the vagina is actually at it's most shallow in that position; guess what other part of the body that applies to? There's a catch though, in the physical relaxation of the anus and gluts if you are bending over because it is mainly an action of the gluts and thighs your anal sphincter is actually at it's tightest ( therefore it's most resistant ), so if what you're saying is remotely accurate even about yourself you don't like this activity and you especially do not like that position.
Basically it's contradictory; what you're saying is that the most comfortable position for you is the most flexed and physically strenuous one. It's mental, really.
Actually you sit on your knees if you can, ahead of the penis a little, and introduce it whilst sittin up; you do not squat since that is extremely strenuous. A knee to each side of the partner tends to give you a lot more balance. If that's the error in understanding, interesting, because it poses the exact same problem as the former position of doggystyle, the sphincter is tight!
Only to show it's more mental than physical, sitting is the most relaxing position, and it's not strenuous to lay on your partner if you need to, thus why you sit on your knees and slowly back into the object itself. I'm surprised your mind just to squatting, though that is a form of cowgirl I guess, but all the same what I'm examining as a position is this:
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Actually I was just thinking of the physical aspect, but to be honest the most vulnerable situations and positions for anything under the sun are those when you can actually see the other party. You might be more likely to get shot in the back physically if you run from thieving someone but it'll be harder on your conscience ( assuming one is present ) if you steal from someone you actually know. I.E. it's usually more mentally engaging and a higher vulnerability to see your partner's face and reactions versus allowing them access without having to look; it's why all of the most intimate positions are indeed face to face or close contact; doggystyle, as much fun as it is, is not a close contact sexual position under most circumstances.
Truth: Psychology and Sexology wouldn't exist if people had a damn clue about themselves.
I'll assume you didn't read any of it since you don't squat.
Can't you at least click a picture link? Just do that; it'll be good for you so you stop saying outdated and disproven things; I mean luckily you didn't have to actually account for the fact that you're still straining your gluts and your back more, but I'm a nice guy and won't include the fact that your scphinter is still tighter in that position.
I hate dense people.
the picture? no, i was expecting some grotesque porn pic. i avoid clicking links.
here goes...
nope. completely the wrong angle.
feels like it's poking into my spine, no pleasure at all.
it's a fricking horrid position.
for vag sex it's okish. not great but okish.
but for anal it sucks. big time.
being face to face is nice but it works better if i'm on my back, with my legs over his shoulders.
still not as good as butt in the air though.
i'm curious...are you bi? is that the position you get buttfucked in?
here goes...
nope. completely the wrong angle.
feels like it's poking into my spine, no pleasure at all.
it's a fricking horrid position.
for vag sex it's okish. not great but okish.
but for anal it sucks. big time.
being face to face is nice but it works better if i'm on my back, with my legs over his shoulders.
still not as good as butt in the air though.
i'm curious...are you bi? is that the position you get buttfucked in?
Considering in your own poll you posed you voted at least 2 positions with the "spine alignment" problem ( and 4 which relax the sphincter, the only one of which that doesn't being the one in trial here ) I'm almost ready to say you're about as bright as a burned out, melted down candle.
You're not even on the same page; it's an introductory position, not a finalized position, there's a difference and all the same who and what I am is about as important to you as how you passed any level of standardized education is to me.
You don't ask relevant questions.
Let it alone, you toes should have started melting by now considering their in your stomach acid.
( Your foot: It's DEEP in your mouth )
Sounds like not very! For god sake - he's another subscriber to 'the pain's all in the woman's mind' type by the sounds of it - therefore not having to worry at all about causing the woman he's with pain - classic example of mysogynistic twaddle designed to relieve them of the multitudes of guilt. Bit like the bible really - everything is a woman's fault!
The fact is that an arse is physiologically not meant to be penetrated - therefore it's painful to put anything up there.
Continence and therefore the anal sphincter muscle is opened by your autonomic nervous system on demand to digested food being pushed into the rectum ready for excretion- i.e. its not a conscious or voluntary action - like breathing, blood pressure maintenance, all your organ functioning, yawning, vomiting and gag reflex. We learn to keep it shut using our somatic nervous system voluntarily, however this means that however well intentioned your 'just relax' notion is - no amount of conscious relaxation will open up a woman's anus, it will just return it to it's normal state of being tight shut -unless the woman is brewing a particularly large shit at the time!
as someone said - women's bodies are not the same as a rubber doll. The anus is not a sexual inlet and therefore does not perform this function. Any sexual function it is made to perform is actually damaging and dangerous physically. There are steps that can minimise this damage but it will never be eliminated completely. Women's anal sphincters are also more susceptible to damage than men's.
If a woman finds a position that makes this slightly easier then this will ease the physiological pain. Take a look at the following diagram and just think about how sitting on top would cause the penis to bang up against the anal/rectal wall. The initial part of the anus/rectum slopes towards the small of the back - therefore accounting for her finding doggystyle more comfortable physically as this is lining up the tube with her partner's erection.
Not much more to say really - basic anatomy speaks for itself. But low and behold we seem to have found a miracle - symphonic actually knows what it feels like to have anal sex as a woman!!!
What is Anal sphincter anatomy?
The fact is that an arse is physiologically not meant to be penetrated - therefore it's painful to put anything up there.
Continence and therefore the anal sphincter muscle is opened by your autonomic nervous system on demand to digested food being pushed into the rectum ready for excretion- i.e. its not a conscious or voluntary action - like breathing, blood pressure maintenance, all your organ functioning, yawning, vomiting and gag reflex. We learn to keep it shut using our somatic nervous system voluntarily, however this means that however well intentioned your 'just relax' notion is - no amount of conscious relaxation will open up a woman's anus, it will just return it to it's normal state of being tight shut -unless the woman is brewing a particularly large shit at the time!
as someone said - women's bodies are not the same as a rubber doll. The anus is not a sexual inlet and therefore does not perform this function. Any sexual function it is made to perform is actually damaging and dangerous physically. There are steps that can minimise this damage but it will never be eliminated completely. Women's anal sphincters are also more susceptible to damage than men's.
If a woman finds a position that makes this slightly easier then this will ease the physiological pain. Take a look at the following diagram and just think about how sitting on top would cause the penis to bang up against the anal/rectal wall. The initial part of the anus/rectum slopes towards the small of the back - therefore accounting for her finding doggystyle more comfortable physically as this is lining up the tube with her partner's erection.
Not much more to say really - basic anatomy speaks for itself. But low and behold we seem to have found a miracle - symphonic actually knows what it feels like to have anal sex as a woman!!!
What is Anal sphincter anatomy?
Can't you at least put more effort into your traps? We both know this process; the "falsely derived premise" followed by the "false conclusion" followed by "logical contamination and sentencing".
i take that as a yes.
you've never been fucked in the arse.
tell me more about what works best for me.
i've gone my whole life in darkness, waiting to be told how i really feel.
for i am but a woman. and what every woman needs is someone like you to enlighten her.
Maybe he'll have some advice about how to invest my savings, or how to cut my hair best - or maybe how best to cut my toenails, wipe my arse, blow my nose, which tampons are best?? Which gynaecologist to go to? How about how to cook - I'm sure he'll be full of fantastic advice based on nothing.
Thank god he's across the pond.
Thank god he's across the pond.
