Getting a woman to cum from anal?
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jeff black
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jeff black
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Well, you'll allow me to be honest and to the point.
If a girl is willing to try taking it up the ass, you've spent the time lubing her and prepping her, she's nice and loose, after you've had some time and slow thrusts (as mentioned by maturedad), there is no reason to not pound the ass.
If you don't like it, then you say, "Ow" or "Fucking stop that", and we'll stop.
Symphonic - you really are full of cack:
So you believe sphincter control is somatic???? Fucking idiot - if that were the case every time you relax you'd shit yourself and everyone who is faecally incontinent would be able to control it using their somatic nervous system. Fucking hilarious. I take it you walk around all day actively squeezing your sphincter tightly shut to stop your shit from falling out. Symphonic - I suppose you actibely open your cricopharyngeal sphincter when you swallow and then your lower oesophageal sphincter when your bolus gets to the entrance to your stomach. Perhaps you have superior somatic control over your pyloric sphincter too????
I'm so glad I didn't grow up in America - your education system obviously sucks big fat cocks, but that really doesn't surprise me!
Fucking idiot - it's not meant to hurt. Idiot - it's not meant for sex! The whole reason it doesn't hurt when you are having a shit is because your autonomic nervous system opens your sphincter. The anal sphincter's relaxed / inactive position is SHUT! If your shit hurts you then stop stuffing hot dogs and oreos and try some bran flakes.
So you believe sphincter control is somatic???? Fucking idiot - if that were the case every time you relax you'd shit yourself and everyone who is faecally incontinent would be able to control it using their somatic nervous system. Fucking hilarious. I take it you walk around all day actively squeezing your sphincter tightly shut to stop your shit from falling out. Symphonic - I suppose you actibely open your cricopharyngeal sphincter when you swallow and then your lower oesophageal sphincter when your bolus gets to the entrance to your stomach. Perhaps you have superior somatic control over your pyloric sphincter too????
I'm so glad I didn't grow up in America - your education system obviously sucks big fat cocks, but that really doesn't surprise me!
Fucking idiot - it's not meant to hurt. Idiot - it's not meant for sex! The whole reason it doesn't hurt when you are having a shit is because your autonomic nervous system opens your sphincter. The anal sphincter's relaxed / inactive position is SHUT! If your shit hurts you then stop stuffing hot dogs and oreos and try some bran flakes.
jeff black
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whats wrong with a gradual building of pace? sheesh!
i'm putting a padlock on my nether regions.
you guys are not to be trusted.
You'll have to forgive me for sounding rude, Dolfette, but I am wondering if you are reading what I am saying.
In my comment, which you quoted, I mentioned taking it quite slowly, after lots of lubing and lots of attention to her asshole. I didn't say anything to counter the idea of building at a slow pace.
Believe it or not, not everyone is here to attack you. I was posting a legitimate thought about the idea of anal sex. I stand by my thoughts of pounding a woman (or a man) after giving the asshole lots of attention. I'm not suggesting you go right into fucking hard and deep. However, I also believe that everyone is entitled to their opinion, and if the bottom wants to take it slowly and gently the entire time, I'm not going to say no.
Sex of any sort is all about compromise and feeling out what your partner wants. Some want it rough, some want it gentle.
Still laughing at Symphonic's idea that anal sex is meant to happen.
Introduction: Anal and Rectal Disorders: Merck Manual Home Edition
I think you'll find the above outlines the autonomic control of the anal sphincter muscle - a muscle group very different from any other in the body - i.e. you can't compare it to the vagina, your abdominals etc.
You need to go and study the anatomy and physiology of the reproductive system, and then the digestive system. You also need to learn that not every body is or wants to be the same as you - which is something you and your countrymen could do with a lesson in.
By the way if you love anal so much - why don't you find a nice bottom gay man to participate. He'd then at least enjoy the event. But I suppose you'd find that disgusting despite a male anus being very similar to a female one - barring one exception - he has a G-spot up there.
Introduction: Anal and Rectal Disorders: Merck Manual Home Edition
I think you'll find the above outlines the autonomic control of the anal sphincter muscle - a muscle group very different from any other in the body - i.e. you can't compare it to the vagina, your abdominals etc.
You need to go and study the anatomy and physiology of the reproductive system, and then the digestive system. You also need to learn that not every body is or wants to be the same as you - which is something you and your countrymen could do with a lesson in.
By the way if you love anal so much - why don't you find a nice bottom gay man to participate. He'd then at least enjoy the event. But I suppose you'd find that disgusting despite a male anus being very similar to a female one - barring one exception - he has a G-spot up there.
jeff black
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Again, there is nothing wrong with what he suggested, is there? I mean, he's clearly got a wife who enjoys attention to her anus and likes a good pounding. While it may not be a favourite for EVERYONE, that is his experience, which the original poster asked for.
I'm not sure why people are running around intentionally being rude, but there is no need.
OP wants to know how to make a girl cum from anal. That's how Hungmaturedad does it. Others have had success being gentle. It's about collecting advice, not attacking those who offer an opinion different than yours.
jeff black
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I don't, I'm sorry. The internet makes it quite hard to understand emotion and intent. To me, it sounded like you were upset. I was trying to clairify.
The whole - 'pounding arses' concept just smacks of violence and enjoying inflicting pain and damage on another human being. No matter how 'relaxed you are' you are going to do damage like that whether you like it or not. And if you really don't mind inflicting damage on your partner then I really don't have a very high opinion of you as a man.
jeff black
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A valid point from you, if it's approached from that angle of violence and dominance, etc. However, when the person WANTS the roughness, the feeling of having a large cock shoved into their orfice (vagina/ass/mouth) and they willingly accept it, then I can understand and accept it as well.
There will always be some damage, but damage also comes from oral and vaginal sex, no? It's all about knowing what your partner wants and how to give it to them. It's not always about hurting the person. In fact, I'd say that is rarely even considered as a reason for having anal sex.
He mentioned nothing about making her cum from anal - which I have a hard time believing actually occurs. There is nothing there physically which would make a woman cum. If you are using clitoral stimulation then you're making her cum via clitoral stimulation - nothing to do with shagging her up the arse. All you are doing is causing rips and tears in her rectum, which may go on to cause fistulas, you may be infecting you penis with faecal bacteria if not using a condom, and she's at risk of incontinence if anal sex is indulged in frequently - an acquaintance who's partner is always at her anally is facing having to have a colostomy bag due to excessive anal and rectal damage due to 'pounding'.
Nice to see you have respect for your fellow human being. Thank you also for encouraging a practice that is likely to humiliate, agonize and leave many women physically damaged in the future.
