Getting an older woman

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  1. B_ILIW

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    I am 30, but i like women aged 40 and more.

    what is the best way date, and do the dirty with, an older woman?
     
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    Buy them expensive shoes
     
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    Hang out at a Double Tree or Sudwerks at night. Make sure to wear your best Ed Hardy t-shirt and you are in like flynn!
     
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    haha

    honestly it shouldn't be that hard. there are tons of older women looking for younger men
     
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    Act older than your actual age.
     
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    There are several websites out for hooking up with older women...one is something about 'cougars' - I don't know the name, but you could google it.

    and yes, there are lots of older women looking for younger men.

    Can you explain your desire for older women??
     
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    urbancougar.com
     
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    And how did you know this :rolleyes:.

    Oh I know - you have a friend... :biggrin1:
     
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    i have the urban cougar panties!

    given to me by a friend, natch. :smile:
     
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    hotness. maturity and confidence. well, they're the three main points.
     
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    what is the general libido level for women at that age? I'm talking normal here, not the ones that come to this site...
     
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    Honestly, just act like a complete asshole and she'll probably want the challenge.
     
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    So you're basically saying that you can use the same strategy for a 40 year old as with a 20 year old?
     
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    Probably, but the 40 year old will likely have kids and know better how to handle the behavior.
     
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    for certain ones maybe. perhaps the wrong ones depending on your outlook and general outlook on life (what you consider important).
     
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    Can't speak for women, so I'll take your word for it:rolleyes:
     
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    I'll tell you, TheBF is younger than me and one of the sexiest things he did was think I was 2-3 years younger than him when he asked me how I was and I asked him to guess. Got me wet, gotta tell you. So flattering!

    Some of the women here like being called cougars, but I conducted an extensive poll, by bringing up the subject over and over again with different groups of people at about 5 parties over the Christmas/New Year's holidays, and every woman thought that the term was offensive. It's too big of a risk, given the percentages, so I advice never uttering the word if you're trying to pick up an older woman.

    Other than those two tips, just pick her up like you would any other woman. If she's interested in a younger man, she probably wants to feel young. If you remind her of your age differences all the time, it'll kill the fun of that. Don't make her feel like an old lady. It's not a turn on.
     
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    Well, if she's going to bed at 8pm, she may just have to face the reality of her age...
     
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    Well, the one I was with would grab me as I entered the door, throw me on her bed, unzip my pants and start sucking it, all before saying "hello".

    She was between 45-50. I never dared to ask. So, Liibdo? I'd say pretty damn high.
     
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    I hate to burst your little fantasy bubble but if shes going to grab you and suck your dick before saying hello, she probably has genital herpes.
     
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