Getting Approached By Guys

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Hey,

So i have this problem? I can always seem to get a guys attention in the form of staring, stealing glances etc.
But when it comes to having a guy come up to me and speaking, asking for social media, numbers etc.
Its like non-existent.
So i was wondering does anyone else have this issue? If so, have you learned a trick to be more approachable?
Should i step out of my comfort zone and start approaching a guy?

Open to all feedback.
 

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Many times we seem to not see the "Approachable signs, Like when a guy looks at you and smiles or just seems to like to be near you. Some may think a guy is being creepy but in all honesty, They want to approach you but are just as worried."
 

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Many times we seem to not see the "Approachable signs, Like when a guy looks at you and smiles or just seems to like to be near you. Some may think a guy is being creepy but in all honesty, They want to approach you but are just as worried."
So true!
Its similar to the relationship between a spider and a human, you’re scared of the spider but the spider is just as scared of you.
 
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Mr Ed in Mass

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I'm extremely friendly to everyone and get hit on alot even though I'm not looking.
Put yourself out there and make the most of it
 
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Okay this might sounds a bit odd, but I learn the lost of people are very observant, and sensitive about others around, I started to see a pattern wen I was single and I want to meet someone I came across “desperate” my friend notice that too, then wen I was in a relationship I got hit left and right, so I started to work on my self, I notice what I’m being .. so I started to be ok alone, work on my self confidence, change my physique, I started to love my self for what I am, and for what I’m not, thinks started to change... I think I’m a friendly guy, I open up.. and I broad my acceptance, and tolerance, I guess I reflected happiness, people want to be around confident (not khaki) and happy people, we are all attracted to that... the I met the love of my life in the must unlucky place in America not a gay bar, but in SoBe.. the attitude there from the must beautiful people in the planet must of them just purely physical..not all of course, but a grate deal of the guys there, they have ratings .. from zero to one hundred I thought I was like 2 , until I met the must beautiful guy in the world now my husband .
 
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