Getting called fat

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Pardon my language, but this couillon is out his damn mind. What the hell, fils de putain?!?! Embrasse mon tcheue, peeshwank! :mad:


OMG LEMONT, you made my day with that post....I was having a really crappy day, until I read your post...Thanks I needed a good laugh.

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um yeah lately i am a full figured gal, i freakin hate it and as soon as my health cooperates i plan on loosing a few (50 lbs or so). But being on steroids every month or two kind of kills every effort i make. haha the steroids from the near death spider bite two weeks ago were another 20 lbs. yes my pics are current as of yesterday. i will post the spider bite pics for a few days.

if you don't have something nice to say please just keep your comment to yourself. only reason i keep posting pics is because i know there are some men who really appreciate my pics and do think i am beautiful.

yes, i know i have a big tits and ass i see it everyday when i put on clothes. The comments in some of the email i get of why do you post pics, please kindly keep it to yourself.

hkwes: Not only did you have a lack of tact in the way you stated your opinion, but if you read the original post, an opinion was never asked for. She simply stated that if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all....
 

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If you are accusing me of lacking tact here, then I have to agree. Tact is sometimes a useful tool, but it is not something I aspire to apply to every situation. That's just how I am.

I once read a quote in someone's signature here that I think is particularly appropriate: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
 

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Funny, the original author never said that she was offended (although she may be). So far it's just other people that have felt it was their duty to feel offended on her behalf.
 

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Funny, the original author never said that she was offended (although she may be). So far it's just other people that have felt it was their duty to feel offended on her behalf.

You may not have meant to be insulting but if you had inserted the word "overweight" instead of "fat" into your post, people would have interpreted it as you intended. "Overweight" is a way to describe someone without labeling them. "Fat" is a derogatory label.
 

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Funny, the original author never said that she was offended (although she may be). So far it's just other people that have felt it was their duty to feel offended on her behalf.

A gentleman is a man who never hurts anyone by accident. You, sir, are no gentleman.

I suggest you apologize to the lady. You've already marginalized yourself by your dogged insistence that your opinion is the only legitimate one being expressed here.

Admit you're wrong, and move on. Or does it take too big a man to do that?
 

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Message to That Girl -
You are NOT fat. While your full, volutuous figure might not appeal to every man, neither do the Pam Andersons of the world (I find her plastic appearance to be revolting). Much more attractive are the real women of the world, you included. Let me rephrase, especially you included. My wife weighed 145 lbs when we got married and, at 5'8" and 36D, was Playboy/Penthouse hot. I'm not sure how much weight she's gained in our 37 years of marriage and don't care. It's probably as much as 100 lbs. But, she's very attentive to many other aspects of her appearance...how she dresses, her skin care, her choice of fragrances, her manicures, her beautiful haircuts, etc. She is also very secure in who she is and behaves in a sexy, yet conservative way...very appealing. As a result of all this, she's more attractive to me now than when she was, by all objective standards, a "knock-out." You should revel in who you are, your sexy appearance (yes...you look sexy to me), and your sexuality. Don't pay attention to our sick, anorexic society. Celebrate who you are everyday. There are many of us who would applaud that.
 

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You're not fit. That's the ultimate thruth. Does it matter? Depends...

I like a body like yours... it's overweight but mantains all the feminine curves.

Some people don't like a body like yours.

Sounds to me like you're a normal person... and like a normal person you will have your share of approval (mine included) and rejections.

Be happy girl.