First, I'm bi and he's straight. (though I don't know the percent lol) I've been great friends with a bud of mine for over a decade. (I'm only 24..so we knew each other even in elementary) We get along really well and would do anything for each other. He always wants to hang out with me. I do with him as well but I'm more independent minded and sometimes I need my space. In any case, recently, because of some procedure he had to get done (do to an accident) he told me a story where basically a male nurse complimented him on his dick. He said "impressive". I'm hung myself and totally into hung guys. Now I'm totally starting to buy this, "you don't have to be gay to show your friend your dick", "you don't have to be gay to give each other a hand-job"..etc..so what would be a good way of going about it? How do you get into something like this? is an email ok to start? lol I'm not even worried about that really..the biggest thing..is that he comes off very asexual. He says he rarley jacks off. He talks a lot about having a family in the future and gets excited about the thought of having kids. Yet quiet recently he expressed an interest to know about my sex life and he wanted details. So that confuses me. Is there such a thing as a really asexual guy?