Getting divorced--evaluating all options

[Puffdaddy316]

I'm 6 month into a divorce process and have been straight my entire life.

At 37, I'm wondering if I'm missing anything.

How do you know if that 10-20% curiousness is real?

PS--my dildo use has been a huge failure.

 

[deleted300444]

" you cant win if you dont play"

Go to a gloryhole booth and get sucked of by a bro.

Or find a bud jerk with.

Report back.

 

[hud01]

Do what makes you happy

 

[BuffaloMedic]

PS--my dildo use has been a huge failure.

No big deal. 2 things to remember: humun flesh is different, and if you don't like taking it in the ass, who cares? There's plenty of other things that are enjoyable with another guy.

Go to a gloryhole booth and get sucked of by a bro.

Or find a bud jerk with.

Jerk bud sounds cool. Or a bud to explore with. Someone you trust. Do you have any gay or bi friends? Just a no expectations session. Explore, taste, feel, touch, look. Go until you want to stop or it doesn't feel good. Maybe a beer or glass of wine to loosen you up, but don't do it drunk or stoned.

I think going to a gloryhole might be a bit off-putting for someone who's never done it. Dirty, like it's something to be relegated to the back room.

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

think on what turns you on more. and when looking at a guy... do you look at his dick or ass... i think that determines whether your a top or a bottom.... well at least for me.

take it slow... no need to rush into something that may not work out after all.
just have fun.