I'm 6 month into a divorce process and have been straight my entire life. At 37, I'm wondering if I'm missing anything. How do you know if that 10-20% curiousness is real? PS--my dildo use has been a huge failure.
" you cant win if you dont play" Go to a gloryhole booth and get sucked of by a bro. Or find a bud jerk with. Report back.
No big deal. 2 things to remember: humun flesh is different, and if you don't like taking it in the ass, who cares? There's plenty of other things that are enjoyable with another guy. Jerk bud sounds cool. Or a bud to explore with. Someone you trust. Do you have any gay or bi friends? Just a no expectations session. Explore, taste, feel, touch, look. Go until you want to stop or it doesn't feel good. Maybe a beer or glass of wine to loosen you up, but don't do it drunk or stoned. I think going to a gloryhole might be a bit off-putting for someone who's never done it. Dirty, like it's something to be relegated to the back room.
think on what turns you on more. and when looking at a guy... do you look at his dick or ass... i think that determines whether your a top or a bottom.... well at least for me. take it slow... no need to rush into something that may not work out after all. just have fun.
