getting friends to talk about size

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  1. Imported

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    jjdov26: I have always wanted to chat with my friends about their sizes and what they think of size in general. We have had some conversations about it, but rarely where we reveal our actual sizes.

    We're all str8 guys, so it is talked about casually. But I was wondering if there are any tricks that you guys know for starting a conversation about size with a group or with an individual friend without seeming weird or fixated on the topic.

    my group of friends is all 26 years old, so we have known each other for a while. Size has been discussed a few times over the years, but never in as much detail as i would like. But I'm afraid if I bring it up wrong, or appear to be "leading" the conversation in that direction, my friends will think I am too interested/worried about the topic (or in a comparison with them--even verbal.)

    Any ideas?
     
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    aznb: haha this is how i got to know my friend's size.
    watch some porn with them...and there will be comment on the pornstars's beast. maybe someone will say "wow, it's pretty big", "he got a small one" or watever. good way to bring up the topic.
     
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    nobel: [quote author=aznb link=board=relationships;num=1058230066;start=0#1 date=07/20/03 at 01:41:40]haha this is how i got to know my friend's size.
    watch some porn with them...and there will be comment on the pornstars's beast.  maybe someone will say "wow, it's pretty big", "he got a small one" or watever.  good way to bring up the topic.
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    Back when I was in college a group of guys and girls were sitting around watching a porn video. There was one actor who must have funded the video or something, because he had an extremely small cock. One of the other guys watching the video said, "finally, a guy with a normal penis." Everyone started laughing at him, as he had basically outed himself as underendowed. A few minutes later another actor came on sporting a huge tool. One of the girls then said, "if any of you guys thinks that is about average, please feel free to speak up." Everyone really busted up. Really, its not the hardest topic to bring up.
     
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    gigantikok: wow, i would imagine it to be pretty akward when penis size gets brought up in a friendship. At least it always has been for me. My friends and I never discuss our sizes, i especially make an effort to conceal mine. If they ever found out, i'd prolly just become a big dick to them... and im not talking literally.:)
     
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    Several years ago a friend of mine mentioned he had
    heard I had a big one and he asked me if I would show
    it to him. He isn't one of my closest friends, but we have
    many friends in common, and we go to a lot of the same
    parties and things.

    Anyway so, yeah, I showed him. It turned into a
    little informal circle jerk kind of thing.

    Another friend mentioned to me once that he had been
    in an online discussion in a local chat board about who
    were the biggest hung in the area ... and that my name
    had come up several times.

    I was quite surprised to hear this. I just told him
    that the reality didn't match the online reputation and
    left it at that. There's a lot of online exageration
    going around.

    I've never raised the issue myself, but it does come
    up from time to time.

    -- Erik
     
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    gigantikok: for that reason aswell, i usually keep my penis to myself. ::)
     
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    baledat: the way i got to see my mates sizes was one night we were drunk and we ended going skinny dipping in my neighbors pool and after that we dont care about hiding ourselves. we get naked a fair bit infront of each other and even circlr jerks have happened.
     
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    My friends talk a lot about pussy. The only time we've talked about dick is when we're watching porn & jerking. Sometimes someone will say mine is real big or another guy is real big. Also when we're close to busting a nut, there are two of my friends that will get real excited & say something like "jerk that big dick,man" to me. Or "I want to see that big dick pop". So I guess we talk about dick size, but only when we're very horny. LOL.
     
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