Getting Fucked By Older Men

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Right when i turned 18 i hooked up with an older man. He took me back to his place fucked me all night long, countless times. I woke up with him cuddling me, his huge cock resting against my leg. I reached down and grabbed it, he noticed i was awake and then pulled me on top of him and kissed me in a way no one my age could. It was deep. Almost more than a kiss. He reached around my backside and stuck his finger in my still loose, cummed up hole and then flipped me over for another long fuck. I remember that weekend VERY vividly. He still jogs my memory sometimes if you know what i mean ;D

picture the body of parker williams and the cock and voice of will west
 
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Yeah, older and younger are really in the mind of the beholder, huh? I think about older or younger people I'm hot for, and there's just a level of experience or awareness that most folks in their late teens or early 20s don't have.
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Age aside, I guess I'm most comfortable with men and women who have some real life experience ... are aware of sort of the same generational icons and popular culture that I am ... and are in decent shape.

What you say is in the same direction as I feel as well. Although many young men and women appear to be attracted to me and some of them, especially if they smile, make me hard, there has to be some other connection. I dated a man half my age once who I felt was more mature than people even my own age and he really was in many respects. Problem is, when he saw all that he had been missing he came *screaming* out and found all kinds of new "diversions" as he experimented and tried to find out exactly what he liked. We grew apart real fast even when I tried to be part of the new stuff.
But what gravely disappoints me are men my age who still think and act like drunk and drugged kids who just don't seem to have any direction. I don't know how people can live a long life and still have not found more healthy ways to have fun. :frown1:
 

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I'm in the "older" category at 48. All I know is I've finally learned how to use what God gave me, and yes: I have more skills, more lasting power, greater ability to read what a partner wants and give it to him than I did at twenty-five or thirty-five.

As for the "around the block 60-70 times?" I've been in three relationships, one of which lasted twenty years. I can count my partners, including safe sex "quickies" without using up all my fingers and toes.

So, there are salt n' peppa foxes out there who can fit the bill. Good luck!
 

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I'll be 62 in October, and there's still the occasional interesting and not unattractive guy in his 30-40's who wants to hang out, in both senses. I never chase, but let him come to me entirely of his own accord, and I never ask directly why he enjoys passing time with a man of my age. From what i can gather, though, it probably runs something like this:

Reliability: Many older guys tend to be less flakely. If a younger man meets their criteria for bedability, "gents" tend to do what they say they're gonna do.

Experience: topics of conversation, advice, tossing a problem around for possible solutions. Younger partners usually can't keep up with the more experienced in “worldly wisdom”.

Sexperience: As long as the younger man is not totally hung up on gym-finished musculature, etc., he will realize that an older guy may well have accumulated a wealth of experience with the male body, both his own and that of his partners. (It’s not at all a matter of how many partners the gent’s had; it’s much more about what he’s learned from how ever many he’s done over the years.) This sexperience can, of course, make itself felt in the performance.

Of course, there are plenty of senior gents to whom the above descriptions may not apply. But 30-40's guys who don’t reject older men out of hand have themselves usually learned to be quite selective ...

40-60’s guys on the lookout for guys in their 20’s ?? That’s an entirely different mind-set, in my opinion.
 

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I'll be 62 in October, and there's still the occasional interesting and not unattractive guy in his 30-40's who wants to hang out, in both senses. I never chase, but let him come to me entirely of his own accord, and I never ask directly why he enjoys passing time with a man of my age. From what i can gather, though, it probably runs something like this:

Reliability: Many older guys tend to be less flakely. If a younger man meets their criteria for bedability, "gents" tend to do what they say they're gonna do.

Experience: topics of conversation, advice, tossing a problem around for possible solutions. Younger partners usually can't keep up with the more experienced in “worldly wisdom”.

Sexperience: As long as the younger man is not totally hung up on gym-finished musculature, etc., he will realize that an older guy may well have accumulated a wealth of experience with the male body, both his own and that of his partners. (It’s not at all a matter of how many partners the gent’s had; it’s much more about what he’s learned from how ever many he’s done over the years.) This sexperience can, of course, make itself felt in the performance.

Of course, there are plenty of senior gents to whom the above descriptions may not apply. But 30-40's guys who don’t reject older men out of hand have themselves usually learned to be quite selective ...

40-60’s guys on the lookout for guys in their 20’s ?? That’s an entirely different mind-set, in my opinion.

I couldn't agree more, mate.

I get hit on a LOT by the younger guys (it's definitely weird to be told you are "bangin" by a 19 year old...I did get jazzed by it, though) and have had the fortune of meeting up with guys in all ranges of age from 18 to 62. And the one thing that stands out as superior with the older guys is the respect and care they gave to me as a partner.

You should be able to tell by my posts that I am not an ageist, but there are differences, advantages, disadvantages to all experience and age levels. I think I'll just keep trying em all out and have to get back to you later on my research results!:wink:

Until then, I LOVE being in my 50's!
 

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I couldn't agree more, mate.

I get hit on a LOT by the younger guys (it's definitely weird to be told you are "bangin" by a 19 year old...I did get jazzed by it, though) and have had the fortune of meeting up with guys in all ranges of age from 18 to 62. And the one thing that stands out as superior with the older guys is the respect and care they gave to me as a partner.

You should be able to tell by my posts that I am not an ageist, but there are differences, advantages, disadvantages to all experience and age levels. I think I'll just keep trying em all out and have to get back to you later on my research results!:wink:

Until then, I LOVE being in my 50's!

Man, I have to totally agree with you. It's a head-turning experience to get hot attention from someone young enough to be your kid like that. But it's a high unlike no other, too!

And I am having a BLAST in my 50s, too! If I had known it was gonna be this good, I would have skipped my 40s, and spent 20 years in my 50s! :wink::smile:
 

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Man, I have to totally agree with you. It's a head-turning experience to get hot attention from someone young enough to be your kid like that. But it's a high unlike no other, too!

And I am having a BLAST in my 50s, too! If I had known it was gonna be this good, I would have skipped my 40s, and spent 20 years in my 50s! :wink::smile:

We rock!
 

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This has been one of the most interesting threads in this place!!!!

Being forty I have had experiences on both being the elder and the younger, and have assessed that...

an asshole is an asshole is an asshole, at 20, 30, 40, 50, or 60...

Not to dimish from what was obviously a horrible experience skeaflea!!!
 

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I remember fondly my first experience with genuinely older guys. I was in my early thirties, in a loveless and sexless marriage, and decided that I would at least have some sex in my life. Being openly bi, I began seeking out the places where men (very often married) would furtively seek out the sexual companionship of other men -- bookstores, mostly, at first. I was not exactly shy but I was terribly nervous at first -- my previous bisexual experiences had been in the context of MMF threesomes with my GF/fiancee and my (straight) college roommate who visited every other summer or so. She was cool with it, even devised a plan to get his cock into my mouth; so when, after we got married, she closed the iron door without warning on all our previous bi fun, I was surprised and disappointed. Apparently she thought it was just a bit of fun I wanted to try, not an expression of something fundamental to who I am.

Cruising in the labyrinth of movie booths in the adult bookstores, I found myself drawn to the somewhat older men, mostly in their forties and dressed for the office. They seemed more stable and trustworthy, and given my nervousness at this early stage of exploring my desire for man-sex, that went a long way.

Of course the bookstores were seamy places, and though I had many memorable experiences there, I soon found that the baths were a better place -- more relaxed, cleaner, with the possibility of talk and socialization before deciding whether to have sex -- so much better than the bookstores' vague semaphore signals of the nod or the raised eyebrow -- plus, the guys were naked! Plus, I was naked too -- nudity is a hard thing to come by in the Great Lakes states during the winter, so the baths, with their saunas and steam rooms, were a great way to strip off the layers of wool and cotton and relax.

One afternoon at the baths I was sitting in the video room, among a group of men, some with towels across their laps, some openly naked and erect, all casually pleasuring themselves while watching gay porn. Two guys, much older than me, and most likely partners, or at least regular fuck pals, came up and sat down on either side. I would guess they were in their sixties. They began caressing me and talking dirty about what a hot young guy I was. Being a bit submissive (and of course starved for affection -- the marriage had moved into the frosty stage), I found myself melting into arousal, despite the 30-year difference in age.

The dissonant note was resolved when I bent over and began to suck the 7-inch cock of the man to my left. I realized a couple of things in that moment: one, that a 65-year-old cock, as long as it's able to get hard, is qualitatively no different than a 25-year-old cock -- smooth, warm, and with that exciting "aliveness" that a throbbing cock has. The other thing I realized was that while the incidence of sex might diminish with age, sexuality and desire does not. It was somehow comforting to know that I'd be just as horny three decades down the road as I was that afternoon with two rampant cocks clamoring for my oral attention.

My two partners finished by standing in front of me as I sat on the low riser, alternately fucking their sizeable cocks into my mouth (doing their best to get them both into my mouth at the same time) and stiffening my cock with their talk about what a hot young slut I was. Their orgasms erupted about the same time, spewing semen into my mouth and all over my face and chest. I came too, my hot seed splashing up onto my belly.

Something fell into place for me that afternoon. I sought out older men for sex exclusively. Their maturity, their emotional stability, their sexual confidence, their greater appreciation of the sex they were having all made it a no-brainer.

Of course I got divorced eventually, but you might be surprised to hear (after the rhapsody to homosexuality I just related) it was for another woman, the most perfect partner I could imagine: brilliant, talented, beautiful -- and sexually, a never-ending delight. Early on in our relationship, she told me that she liked the openness that my bisexuality represented. We've shared sex with another bi man, a great guy with a 9" cock that pleasured her to no end, and our own sex life is active, varied and feels just right.

I've also continued enjoying older men, now on a much more occasional basis; being happy at home has taken the obsessive urgency out of my need to suck cock and get fucked. At 54, I'm finding it a little harder to get to that multiple decade difference that gives me the ineffable thrill -- usually guys are about ten years older than me now. I had a sex pal for many years who was 20 years my senior, sporting a 9.5" cock -- took a little more time to hoist a full boner, but it was fun getting him there.

I also had some fun with our 9" bi friend, who, it turned out, shared my fetish for older men. We arranged a day-long threesome with a friend of mine in his mid-60s, during which we did every variation we could think of. One particular favorite tableau involved our older guy standing naked on the living room floor, fucking the eager mouth of Mr 9, while I sucked Mr 9's hefty tool (was hoping for the warm splash in my mouth of his spunk, but he usually took much longer to cum). We finished with our older guy sitting on the couch, me kneeling between his legs and sucking his balls while Mr 9 jacked our older friend's throbbing cock. When he began to cum, Mr 9 knew just what to do -- he aimed that luscious prick at my face and open mouth, and jacked it till I was beautifully facialed. It was an unbeatable pleasure to lick his spermy older cock clean.

So there you have it, a bit long perhaps, but the narrative of my interest in older men. I suppose there are some psychological issues that I haven't really explored -- "daddy" stuff, or whatever -- but it doesn't seem to me like I need to delve very deeply into it. It feels right, and I like to do it.
 
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It's funny.........It seems that once I passed fifty I suddenly became attractive to a range of 20 somethings......I wonder what gives>?

Would it be rude of me to say i could be on account of your 'third leg'...;-)

Nah, that would just be size queenist of me?!!??

I'm sure it's your devilish good looks, Industrialsize!??!?
 

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Age is truly only a number, so if you find a guy hot, by all means go for it. As to STDs and all other kinds of nasties, when I first came out (at age 38) I was told my a long-time friend of mine; "Always assume everybody has it." Good advice. If you assume everybody has a disease of some kind and play accordingly you should have many hot times.
 

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I've always been attracted to guys considerably older than myself, I think in general though it comes down to a couple of things.

From a broad perspective as lovers go older guys generally will tend to have had more experience so therefore will naturally make better lovers. However we al know thats not true of every-one there are some people that no matter how many lovers they may or may not have had will always be selfish, or fumbling, or impatient.

From my own personal perspective I prefer older guys not only from a sexual side of things but also from a psychological/emotional perspective. Some of the things I've been through been through in my life have led me to grow up very quickly and view life from a different angle from most, on top of which i was always even as a child considered to be mature so sometimes i find it difficult to relate to guys my own age or younger.

Many my age and younger (and true some older as well) are still very concerned about being pretty, hitting the clubs and keeping up appearences. While that still in some ways doese appeal to me a vast majority of my thougts are on building foundations, self improvement, and having back yard parties.
 

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I'm 39 and find quite a few under 25s who are attracted to someone older. As one said once: "You know all the best restaurants and have the money to go there as well..."

Sure, they are generally submissive twink-types, but that's fine by me anyhow...
 

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I think also that in these times it is easier for older blokes to keep fitter and look better than what they did in the past. Plus, a lot of older men end up looking fitter and sexier than dudes 20 years younger than them in some cases as they want to look good and still be in the dating game. Christ, I've seen some blokes in their fifties and forties with bums on them that are harder, rounder and perkier than most blokes in their twenties and thirties and it is even hotter when they also wear really tight jeans or cargo shorts that REALLY show off that bum lol