emilywee: How many others in here have more than on one occassion asked a guy to show you his penis? I'm wondering how many other women out there enjoy this activity with platonic friends. It was easier in college because of the social atmosphere. What started out as a joke with my circle of friends ended up being a recurring pasttime at get-togethers and a few parties. Me and my two best friends probably looked at two dozen penises over those four years. I didn't want to date those guys and/or had a boyfriend, but I really enjoy checking them out if its safe and fun for both parties. There were two friends that showed us all the time, like nearly every week (except one of them briefly dated my best friend). But now we all live in different cities. There's one guy today who I hang out with often that's been doing this for me for several months. It's been getting awkward at times, but overall it's enjoyable and we value our friendship and just chilling out together more than anything. Do others enjoy this and if so, how have you set up the situation? Only one person I know makes an effort to do this as much as me, and it's not something you can really talk about in public.