Getting off on watching them struggle to take it

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  1. HungTeen19

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    Anyone else get off on watching the chick or dude you're fucking struggle to take your cock? Was fucking a chick on Weds. night who struggled to get my cock into her pussy. She was moaning and struggling to get it in while I slowly pushed inch after inch into her. I nearly came right there listening to her moan and struggle to fit my dick inside of her.
     
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    Nah, not really. For me that would be kind of about dominating the person. I'm more about shared fun during sexual activity.

    But, I could see how it would be sexy to see a girl work to get it in her...
     
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    I dunno - isn't this what sex always is? I've seen penetration in pornos that look like a pencil going into a pencil sharpener and think, gee, that girl must be big as a hat. Huh - must be me.
     
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    Absolutely! On a site like this, I would imagine that many of the guys have heard phrases like "it hurts so good" or "it hurts, but I like it."

    WHAT I'VE LEARNED: There's also a sense of satisfaction that some women get that comes from being able to "take the whole thing." Women love the feeling of being "filled up." That doesn't come without a bit of "work."

    Struggle and shared fun are not mutually exclusive. Just because a woman struggles to put it inside her doesn't mean she isn't enjoying it.

    In the never-ending quest for men to understand how penetration feels to women, one term that has been offered by women is "exquisite pain." I love seeing that "pained" look on the face of a woman being overwhelmed by the size and feeling of my size entering her for the first time, or for the first time in a day or two after her body has resumed its normal proportions.

    Yes, HungTeen, that's it for me, too!

    "The struggle alone pleases us, not the victory. "--Blaise Pascal
     
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    i unfortunately have never had that problem in real life but love to see it in videos.
     
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    I didn't make love to my boyfriend around the first 10 times or so because of his size.
     
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    I find this a huge turn on! I love it when a chick or guy gets so into the passion that they want to take more!
     
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    well hungteen, when your 30% starts acting up let me know 'cause I'd like to give it a try

    :tongue:
     
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    As long as the guy or gal struggling to take the cock is doing so because THEY want to, then it is hot. It like" I need you and I am going to make this happen!" I do this when bottoming for my Guy. He is always the voice of concern and reason. I am the "Let's do this!, It. Will. Fit!"

    The micro second that it turns to the top thinking "oh that's hot, take it" with out any concern for the bottom (again male or female), and they are no longer an active participant, but are now just in pain or discomfort, then folk, we have a problem.

    The one is the receptive party getting caught up in the heat of the moment.

    The other is rape.
     
  10. HungTeen19

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    I'm clearly not talking about rape - just seeing her try to (and want to) take a big cock. It's a combo of her not knowing if she can take it but wanting it to stretch her and fill her up. I will usually comment on it too saying something like "you've got 3 more inches to go. how do you think that's gonna feel? Think you can take it? Imagine how full you're going to feel with all of this cock inside of you." That usually makes them beg for it.
     
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    Maybe struggle is the wrong word. Replace it with attempt or strive in the pleasurable sense and I am sure nobody would deny the charm. :cool:
     
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    I learned early on (like the 2nd girl I fucked, the one who was more or less my age), that it would take a lot of time kissing and making out to get my partner wet, PLUS a lot of external lube, AND slow gentle insertion, to get my dick fully inside anyone. So I wouldn't say I get off by the struggle, but I enjoy the sweaty, messy, process, because I know we're both going to really enjoy the end result of an orgasm or three. THere's nothing I enjoy more than that physical closeness, as our bodies work together on the road to orgasm.
     
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    sure as hell turns ME on!
     
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    I'm already begging for it
     
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    why was she struggling?
     
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    I love when girls struggle with my size
    right now tho I'm just struggling with acceptping how hot Reesev73 is...
     
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    that shit pisses me off, actually

    i love tight pussy but i cant stand when a chick struggles
     
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    I get what you mean Teen (promise that was unintentional illiteration), yeah! That is definitel a big turn on
     
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    I'm with ya on this one, it is such a turn on so see someone trying so hard to take it all but you can tell they want to
     
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    I had a lover that was rather large and i would struggle to take him in my arse in particular when he got it in all the way and started to thrust.

    He later told me he really got off on watching me struggle and moan as well as my eyes everytime he thrust deep inside me
     
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