I've always wondered about the phenomenon of what I would term "getting serviced". By that I mean a guy just sitting back and getting his dick sucked or getting a hand job. Personally it doesn't do a thing for me. I prefer constant interaction and physicality. Just laying there and having someone else do all the work just seems downright lazy. I'm curious how others can relate the mental aspect of this to me. Is it a power/control thing? For some reason it I interpret it as selfishness. Thoughts/comments?