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I'm happily married with kids and grandkids. A few years ago, after chatting to a guy on Fabguys, I made a move and went to his house. He wanked, sucked and fingered me, as well as frotting and sucking my nipples. As it was my first time, it was mind blowing. I ended up sucking and wanking him, begging him to cum in my mouth. The feeling of a warm mouth full of spunk that wasn't my own was awesome. I swallowed the lot. I was on my way somewhere else, so didn't have time for much more.

I've chatted to him a few times since then. He wants us to meet up and repeat all that but also fuck each other. He said he'd even douche me, as it's something I've never done before.

The last time we chatted, quite recently, he started going on about my characteristics and things about my body that really turn him on. He ended up telling me that he really fancies me. He started asking me what I fancy about him.

I enjoyed having him introduce me to man on man sex but that was it for me. I think, given the opportunity, I would go and fuck him and get myself fucked, just for the experience but I don't think I could ever make it more than that.

Has anyone else been in this situation and, if so, what did you do about it.
 
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I think, given the opportunity, I would go and fuck him and get myself fucked, just for the experience but I don't think I could ever make it more than that.
Tell him just that, it has to be a no strings arrangement, having a fuck buddy can be managed provided you both agree it is a NSA relationship
 

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I make it very clear that this is a fun thing just to get our rocks off. I had a regular male suck buddy for a few years before I moved.

We'd hook up every month or so. One of us would call the other and decide at whose place we're meeting.

We'd both leave satisfied and go about our business. Sometimes we'd talk about our exploits with women, and I decided he was much luckier than I was. Still we needed each other.

But that's as far as the relationship went.
 
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Right, thx for that. I think that's how I'll play it.
 

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I'm happily married with kids and grandkids. A few years ago, after chatting to a guy on Fabguys, I made a move and went to his house. He wanked, sucked and fingered me, as well as frotting and sucking my nipples. As it was my first time, it was mind blowing. I ended up sucking and wanking him, begging him to cum in my mouth. The feeling of a warm mouth full of spunk that wasn't my own was awesome. I swallowed the lot. I was on my way somewhere else, so didn't have time for much more.

I've chatted to him a few times since then. He wants us to meet up and repeat all that but also fuck each other. He said he'd even douche me, as it's something I've never done before.

The last time we chatted, quite recently, he started going on about my characteristics and things about my body that really turn him on. He ended up telling me that he really fancies me. He started asking me what I fancy about him.

I enjoyed having him introduce me to man on man sex but that was it for me. I think, given the opportunity, I would go and fuck him and get myself fucked, just for the experience but I don't think I could ever make it more than that.

Has anyone else been in this situation and, if so, what did you do about it.
I think if you make it clear the next time you both hook up, that this is definitely only fuck buddy/friends with benefits relationship and you have no interest ever of taking it further, that would be the best approach.

With girls, from my experience this has always been hard, because inevitably, they develop deep feelings for you.

With my male partner, there is absolutely no issue whatsoever. He knows that I am not interested in anything more than only a physical relationship with any guy and I know he loves his wife and wants to stay with her so we are both on the same page. We hook up when the opportunity arises, have great enjoyable sex, then we go our seperate ways till our next time together. We are both happy and satisfied with the arrangement.
 

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I make it very clear that this is a fun thing just to get our rocks off. I had a regular male suck buddy for a few years before I moved.

We'd hook up every month or so. One of us would call the other and decide at whose place we're meeting.

We'd both leave satisfied and go about our business. Sometimes we'd talk about our exploits with women, and I decided he was much luckier than I was. Still we needed each other.

But that's as far as the relationship went.
Now that's sounds so fun & hot