So, last week I hooked up with a huge guy, and turned him down. I came to this site to get (some great) advise on how to suddenly deal with a huge man. I am seeing him again tomorrow. I'm still not ready. But when I think of turning him down again, it breaks my heart a little. How bad is it when you get turned down? Or; conversly, do you get used to it? Cause he looked like a little boy on a sad Christmas morning when I said "no".