Getting turned on

[mountainjew]

First of all a couple of appologies; 1) being wasn't sure what section to put this in and 2) sorry for any mistakes typing on by iPod touch.

What do you guys have to do to get turned ok during forplay? Basically my current fling he's hard with kissing and teasing his certain areas that he likes (dunno how to describe it but like sensitive areas of hip and collar bone) so when I grope him he's pretty hard. Thing is I don't really get turned on by this......or maybe my spots aren't getting teased enough? It could also just be nerves. I've got more thoughts but typing is currently tedious.

Any suggestions, thoughts or just point of view on this subject?

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

What would you like him to do? What does turn you on?

Sometimes, we all have to ask for that. For me, if you want me reliably hard, you have to pay attention to my cock. My wife likes to touch me all over, occasionally paying attention to my dick. I have to gently remind her about that.

 

[mountainjew]

I know when watching porn simply watching doesn't make me that hard, I have to play with myself 1st.
But yeah I suppose this thread is more a confidence thing/ my paranoia to make sure I'm not wierd and the only one. I also think nerves play a lot with it, need to relax and enjoy it more.