First of all a couple of appologies; 1) being wasn't sure what section to put this in and 2) sorry for any mistakes typing on by iPod touch. What do you guys have to do to get turned ok during forplay? Basically my current fling he's hard with kissing and teasing his certain areas that he likes (dunno how to describe it but like sensitive areas of hip and collar bone) so when I grope him he's pretty hard. Thing is I don't really get turned on by this......or maybe my spots aren't getting teased enough? It could also just be nerves. I've got more thoughts but typing is currently tedious. Any suggestions, thoughts or just point of view on this subject?