I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple of years now and everything is great, only one thing, every time we have sex its quite the process. We have to lubricate ALOT otherwise it isn't happening. Then when its time, it takes a couple of minutes for her to handle me getting in. It seems to really hurt her at first, but then once it gets going she likes it. After we have sex she sometimes bleeds, but usually will be out of the game for a couple of days after. Does any one have any advice?