GF has a fetish for black guys.

[latinluva]

She's either trying to get you to leave her, or she just has a curiosity of what it would be like to have sex with a black man. Either way, she isn't ready to settle down in a relationship. I know quite a few women who dated black men and honestly say, it's just like dating a white, brown or any other man for that matter. Only difference is having to deal with family members and friends who keep asking stupid questions like,"Is it different?" Or, "Why are you seeing him?" A cock is a cock, and most men are relatively the same. A pussy is a pussy and most women are relatively the same.

 

[account115]

She's either trying to get you to leave her, or she just has a curiosity of what it would be like to have sex with a black man. Either way, she isn't ready to settle down in a relationship. I know quite a few women who dated black men and honestly say, it's just like dating a white, brown or any other man for that matter. Only difference is having to deal with family members and friends who keep asking stupid questions like,"Is it different?" Or, "Why are you seeing him?" A cock is a cock, and most men are relatively the same. A pussy is a pussy and most women are relatively the same.

She doesnt even want to date, shes never talked about that. She only fantasizes about sex with a good looking, hung black guy.

 

[WillyLong]

Shes never "reminded me of who Im not", she says shes very satisfied with our sex. Its just a fetish of hers.

Well what advise is it that you want from the members on this site? Give us the script that you've written in your head so we can regurgitate it back to you to make you feel better about your girlfriend's "fetish".

 

[b.c.]

Dude, no one can give you advice as to what you should or shouldn't do. YOU two are going to have to sit down and figure this one out as to what you both want as a relationship. Since the idea of it seems to thrill you, maybe I think, you have to figure some things out too. Do you want to try it once? Do you want to become swingers where you meet up with couples? or preferably black guys? YOUR choice.

Such relationships involve more than what you originally think it might with regard to trust issues and personal insecurities. Look well before you leap.

 

[DQSundae]

Who doesn't have a fetish for black guys?

 

[D_Richard Lugie]

Wow man, yea, I think you should talk with her. Unless you are swingers of some sort, I dont see why you would let her talk about other men like this, and why you would of other women. I believe if the relationship is monagamous, then you should not talk about other people in such sexual ways, only your significant other deserves this kind of attention, even if the sex is great.

 

[mandoman]

I don't like the pack mentality of most of the posters, coming after account115.
You aren't in his shoes. I've been with the same woman since the age of 16, and monogamous, and our relationship is not as simple as most of you guys seem to believe a relationship is. So many of you believe she is going to cheat on him. Maybe she is.
Maybe he knows her better than you do, and she isn't. You have no right to pre-judge him on what hasn't happened.
b.c. and dqsundae, congratulations for making sense, and posting like mature, clear headed guys. account115, you have my respect as well.

 

[jerryhall]

Dear Account 115,
You have a really healthy attitude about all of this, so that is great. Also great that you can communicate with your gf about the sexual fantasies you both have.

If you are willing to let her fuck another guy, then that is fine too, just that some guys are not okay with that.

If you think this can stay on the fantasy level, then most people on here seem to not agree with that, it sounds like she is pretty into this idea and will eventually get fucked by black guys with or without your support.

 

[account115]

At this point I dont think she would cheat on me, but when we break up Im pretty sure what she will go looking for, shes actually indicated it on some occasions.

Sometimes she talks about having a threesome, so I can tell shes sort of anxious for it.

 

[mephistopheles]

I just wanna say that if her fetish is a turn on for you then you might want to look into cuckolding(it's pretty extreme if you don't know what it is)
Essential you let a black guy fuck your wife while you watch and yeah... more, other stuff.
(Might now sound extreme but think about it in the most realistic terms you can)

Anyway, if you're into that then you should grab her and find a black dude who you wanna watch fuck your wife, if that's not something you want you need'ta run for the hills though.

Just remember in the eyes of cuckolding you and her are still lovers and companions... she just gets some extra.

If you aren't into cuckolding then you need'ta get out because I wouldn't say "fetish" as much as I'd say straight up attraction.

Just remember lust isn't love and vice versa.

 

[account115]

I just wanna say that if her fetish is a turn on for you then you might want to look into cuckolding(it's pretty extreme if you don't know what it is)
Essential you let a black guy fuck your wife while you watch and yeah... more, other stuff.
(Might now sound extreme but think about it in the most realistic terms you can)

Anyway, if you're into that then you should grab her and find a black dude who you wanna watch fuck your wife, if that's not something you want you need'ta run for the hills though.

Just remember in the eyes of cuckolding you and her are still lovers and companions... she just gets some extra.

If you aren't into cuckolding then you need'ta get out because I wouldn't say "fetish" as much as I'd say straight up attraction.

Just remember lust isn't love and vice versa.

Why should I "get out"? You think shell cheat on me eventually?

The thing I dont like about the whole cuckold thing is the entire humiliation part of it, Im not really into that.

I dont know if I could watch her fuck a black guy. One part of me is jealous, the other is curious if its really what she imagines it to be.

 

[D_Richard Lugie]

Curiosity killed the cat.

 

[account115]

Has anybody ever allowed their gfs to "indulge" in such a fantasy? Do people really think that if I dont let her do it she will inevitably cheat?

 

[3664shaken]

Fantasies are one thing to women and another to men.

Most men have fantasies that they want to do, while many women have fantasies that they find provocative but don't want. For example, rape fantasies are pretty common among women but NONE of us want to be raped.

I have been with black men so it's not that taboo but the only porn I like to watch is black man on white girl - it's erotic to me and when I masturbate I usually fantasize about a hung black guy fucking me. Does that mean I will cheat on my bf because of this - no.

The real question is - has she had a large cock before? If she hasn't then she is probably curious and may want to try a large cock, the black skin color may add to the excitement. Just ask her openly.

 

[D_LeonardoDeCrapio]

She's going to cheat...

 

[account115]

Fantasies are one thing to women and another to men.

Most men have fantasies that they want to do, while many women have fantasies that they find provocative but don't want. For example, rape fantasies are pretty common among women but NONE of us want to be raped.

I have been with black men so it's not that taboo but the only porn I like to watch is black man on white girl - it's erotic to me and when I masturbate I usually fantasize about a hung black guy fucking me. Does that mean I will cheat on my bf because of this - no.

The real question is - has she had a large cock before? If she hasn't then she is probably curious and may want to try a large cock, the black skin color may add to the excitement. Just ask her openly.

No, shes never been with either a huge cock or a black guy. And yes, she does want to try it, we talk pretty openly abou these things.

Let me justask you, because you have already experienced them, are black men really more hung than white guys?

 

[3664shaken]

Are black men more hung?

This is gonna open a can of worms. I'll answer it this way - I search out hung men and when I lived in LA or am in other cities with a higher percentage of black men I tend to have about a 50/50 mix of white/black in the hung category. Where I live now where the black population is less than 5% the mix is about 80/20 white/black.

So in my personal experience there are more hung black men on a percentage basis than white men but not ALL black men are hung - most are just average.

 

[account115]

Are black men more hung?

This is gonna open a can of worms. I'll answer it this way - I search out hung men and when I lived in LA or am in other cities with a higher percentage of black men I tend to have about a 50/50 mix of white/black in the hung category. Where I live now where the black population is less than 5% the mix is about 80/20 white/black.

So in my personal experience there are more hung black men on a percentage basis than white men but not ALL black men are hung - most are just average.

So do you thinkmy gf will cheat sooner or later, like the other people? Do you think I have a problem.

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

Doesn't everyone?

 

[HungBx]

Because she'll proabably cheat on you with the first hung black guy she meets. Alternately you could suggest you find a black guy for her and then go find one with a small dick. It might convince her to saty with you lol

hahaha thats funny bro