I have this new girlfriend and we have been attempting to have sex a few times now. First time i was able to get it in, she was really really wet but she made me stop because she said it was an excruciating pain. Laer that day we attempted again and was only able to get the head in w/o hurting her. Last night when we attempted again but no matter what we tried she was too tight... its kind of frustrating but I am going to keep trying. So i guess i'm trying to find out how to make it easier (positions, lube, etc) and less painful for her.